posted on Jun, 14 2010 @ 03:35 PM
reply to post by MyProblemWithEvil
Are we related lol?
Yup life is sure a pain in the ass sometimes (understatement) and it can feel like everyone is trying to put you down, but the only way forward is to
put your head up and move forward.
There are plenty of f-up people in the world, and many many good people out there but if you are like me they rarely show up on the Radar....
One of my first girlfriends was abused by her father at a young age, she lived with her mother for a while until her mother died and she was taken
into foster care at 15. When we got together when she was 17 sex wasn't even on my mind because I loved her so much. I gave her all the time she
needed to regain her trust in men, we used to sleep together sure but I wanted to show her not all men are one track minded. For five months we had
no sex, sure I had urges but them urges were not as strong as the love and compassion I felt for her.
I saw somebody so hurt, so confused that what I felt didn't matter no more. I was determined to help give her a chance at life to show her I loved
her for who she was, not just to fulfill my needs. When the day came and we made love it was magical, it broke down so many mental barriers she had
and she gained so much confidence and trust in life.
Never give in because there is always somebody who can come along and change your life. You will know when that person comes, and believe me "That
person will come" they will literally turn your world around. However only you can allow that to happen, sometimes you have to step outside your
comfort zone no matter how hard that may be. The more you dwell on negative thought, the more power you give them.
I feel for ya I really do -Big Virtual Hug-
[edit on 14-6-2010 by NotAgain]