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Originally posted by Wolf321
Perhaps he should treat her in accordance with her faith, as practiced by those in Mecca.
Take away all the western abominations she has, make up, music, magazines etc. She being a child and a woman, is to obey strictly the rules of the father. She cannot be out alone, or without an adult male relative. Then he can start deciding who her husband will be, which she will have no say in determining. Make sure she adheres to her prayer times(bright and early every day), and never eats anything pork.
Then question her on her new faith to see what she knows about it.
That phase will likely end quickly.
Originally posted by Horza
reply to post by Dr Conspire
I believe the situation that your brother is going through is one of, if not the biggest challenge a parent will face and their response may have the most lasting impact on their relationship with their child.
The challenge faced when your child decides to make their own decision about what life philosophy they believe in, especially when that decision is different or the opposite of what you believe in.
Yes these conversions are happening but also keep in mind that conversions are happening from one religion to another all the time. There is nothing we should do to "handle" these conversions. Choosing ones religion is a fundamental human right.
What we need to do, however, is handle how we accept a conversion when it happens to involve a close friend or family member especially if they are converting to a religion that we, personally, do not believe in. That, is the the big challenge.
Conversions like this only become a negative development when there is a lack of support for or resistance to the decision.
If we are able to accept and support our family/friend looking us in the eye and saying "I believe in something that is different to what you believe in" then yes, as you say, it could be a pathway to peace and harmony.
In saying all this, a child, especially teenagers, do need and no matter what they say, crave direction from their parents.
If your brother and his wife could connect with their daughter on this issue and explore her reasons for the decision then maybe a compromise that suits the whole family can be found.
Originally posted by Stormdancer777
reply to post by Dr Conspire
Maybe she will get tired of it, after living with certain freedoms, I don't understand why a women would want to go backward,
Maybe when bikini season rolls around she will figure it out.
ALL organized religion are cancers upon civilization, ALL OF them.
Originally posted by Misoir
Originally posted by Just Wondering
reply to post by Misoir
she is 16 hell yes he can rip that stupid burqa off her haid stop her. she is a child and doesn't know what she is getting into.
poor girl. the religion of peace my ass they need to be stopped at whatever the cost.
Islam is a cancer on civilization.
[edit on 5/28/10 by Misoir]
Well you can take Islam and shuv it. We have a thing called freedom here in the west, and Islam does not
ALL organized religion are cancers upon civilization, ALL OF them.
Not just Islam.
The very worst thing in our world from the recent past and now is organized religion of all type. - Hot Baked Tater