Like this ...

Originally posted by Pisky
Like this ...

Awwww that would win my heart, .

Originally posted by Gazrok
It's so much easier to just wait for the "chicks" to pick you up, hehe... That's my method of choice...

Course, I'm married now, so game over for me, hehe.....

If only life were that easy, the problm with that apporach is you'll miss out on alot of great chicks who just dont have the confidence to approach you. So thats why confidence is the best weapon against lonliness.

nd i see alot of you guys saying not to call females chicks... is this an age thing or maybe a cultural thing, coz here in Australia they dont mind at all. When you first meet them dont call them chicks, but once you know them a bit the word chick is ok by my books... then again maybe if i stopped using the word i could get more chicks... i mean ladies

Picking up women? Sure fire recipe: one part vodka, two parts sledgehammer. works every time.

Seriously, When you first meet them, don't be one of the guys(or girls) that does the whole "I'm not trying to sleep with you" routine. They know your trying to sleep with them. This is why A$$holes get laid so often. they're up front with their intentions. Remember, women like sex too, and sometimes they don't want romance, they want hardcore porn. Women understand that no male goes to clubs or bars to dance and have fun. they go for sex. Many women feel the same way.

Remember, no matter how dirty your thoughts are, chances are she's already done them all.

Damn, you all make it sound so easy...

Unfortunately, confidence is very lacking for some, including myself. Some are just too damn shy. And some just don't "have it."

As much as I don't want to, it sometimes feels like I've thrown up the white flag. I have such little confidence and too shy to really do anything about it.

But hey, we can't have everything we want in life, can we?

Originally posted by sweatmonicaIdo
Damn, you all make it sound so easy...

Unfortunately, confidence is very lacking for some, including myself. Some are just too damn shy. And some just don't "have it."

As much as I don't want to, it sometimes feels like I've thrown up the white flag. I have such little confidence and too shy to really do anything about it.

But hey, we can't have everything we want in life, can we?

If you dont have confidence you just need to build it. It wont happen over night, but if you listen to the good things people tell you about yourself, ignore the bad, dwell on the good, then go out and give it a shot you should be fine... although if you have three eyes, no lips, maggots crawling out of your nose and a hump back... well if thats you... good luck

Well, that's the thing. I live in a place where people don't really say good or bad things about you. So I really wouldn't know.

Originally posted by sweatmonicaIdo
Well, that's the thing. I live in a place where people don't really say good or bad things about you. So I really wouldn't know.

Well then say good or bad things about yourself... more the good... in fact forget the bad altogether... you just gotta keep a positive attitude and stick to the three second rule... if you see a chick you wanna talk to go do it. dont wait any longer than three seconds coz thats when your mind starts talking you out of it... the rule basically is 'just do it' (hope NIKE dont sue me for that) dont think just do... thinking is the bane of humanity.... be impulsive, suprise yourslef... trust me it'll work.