reply to post by ImaNutter
Where was I in 69? Crying like a baby because I had to go to kindergarten.
I'm a product of the 70's. Music that is. I didn't discover girls "all the way" until '83 when I was stationed in Germany when I served in
the Army. Between there, Switzerland, and France is where I cut my sexual teeth [ I travelled a bit]. As you may well know, the sexual attitudes over
there were, and probably still are, alot more easygoing. They didn't seem to have any baggage tied to it. They looked at it the way it's supposed to
be looked at, fun. With no hidden agenda's, no points to prove, and nothing to rebel against. Just.....fun. If you want to see that as one definition
of free love, then yes, I experienced free love [ Although sometimes I did pay for it
That's the sexual attitude I grew up with. And since the women I was with were so easygoing and liked it so much, they were very good at what
Experimentation was encouraged, as was hash.
But then I get back here to the states, and it didn't take long to miss the European ladies. Too many stuck-up tight a##es who thought they were
ENTITLED to it and just laid there while YOU did all the work.
So what did I do? Hooked up with and married a black woman. Why? Listen to Some Girls by the Stones and you'll know. Yes, I did it for all the
wrong reasons. No, it didn't last. But the "wrong" reasons were'nt the reason, coc aine was.
So when I tell people that my morals are different, not better, from the Cyrus' of the world, that's where my statement is coming from. Knowing
what little you know about me now, you understand how it would be hypocritical of me to say that I'm "better" than they are. Just because I've
changed into a family man with the same wife of 10+ years doesn't make me better than someone who is loose with ther sexality with multiple partners.
Been there, done that. The ONLY difference now is that I have the same partner. The most beautiful re-headed Italian you'd ever hope to meet.
But the way I view sex and the way they view sex are 2 different animals. They encourage it because it helps them make money. I will encourage it
for my daughter [in about 20 years, lol] because it's fun and it can help help you draw closer to someone you love. That encouragement will come from
experience, not some 17 year old media whore who THINKS she knows what she's doing.
You don't have to have multiple partners and flaunt what you do in front of the world in order to have a good sex life. Trust me, I've had
multiple partners in my day and I've had a much better sex life,and still do, than she EVER will simply because of the way she goes about it. She's
just your typical American female IMO-- "look at me, I'm a big girl now and making a lot of money" points to prove and rebellion are oozing out of
every pore. Yeah, that's sexy
BTW, you can apply this to the young males of today too. Which is what I probably what I shoud've done in the first place. [It would have made
the above paragraph a lot less creepy]
It used to be that role models, and whether she likes it or not that's what she is, knew what they were and acted accordingly. Apperently those
days are long gone. They just don't seem to care what people think of them as long as their bank account keeps getting fatter.
But I guess that we as a society have "progressed" to this point and that's simply the way it is, so just accept it. Yeah, way to deny
So dude, where YOU in 69?