posted on Apr, 14 2010 @ 03:08 PM
Yes but its a process which takes time, you have to cultivate it. For example, if you want to be more outgoing the only way to do that is to actually
be outgoing, which means overcoming your inhibitions towards people, which is not an overnight process. If you want to be more funny, you have to get
into a state of mind which is comedic, easygoing, lighthearted, and you have to understand what your sense of humor is in the first place.
If you want to be like "that guy over there" you will fail. You have to go for being who you want to be, but understand that your outward
appearances and actions are only the lowest manifestation of your inner self, its a reflection of the higher/inner world and is not really "who you
are". In other words you should not believe that who you project yourself as being is who you really are, it serves who you really are, otherwise its