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So what your saying, in retrospect, is the best way to solve a problem is not worrying about it? Thinking that there is no problem makes you problem free?
So every human on the Earth has one basic need:
Achieving complete happiness, a complete piece of mind.
Originally posted by ganjoa
reply to post by Nostradumbass
Don't know if you're replying to my post
So what your saying, in retrospect, is the best way to solve a problem is not worrying about it? Thinking that there is no problem makes you problem free?
But if so, no that's not what I was trying to express. If you encounter a problem you can't seem to solve, change your definition of the problem - how you see the problem constrains the solution set. Obviously, I'm not referring to equations and such, but problems of the heart/soul/psyche.
galadofwarthethird ridicules the grain of truth that underlies the situation a bit. But the basic thought is this: you view life through the lense of your perception of reality, key here is perception - you can choose rose colored or turd colored glasses to view your surroundings (as well as any number of others you care to invent).
Anyway, you can't think yourself into happiness, there's no task list, no preconditions, no objections to overcome, it's not a contest. Corporeal reality, things and trophys, accomplishments, "greatness" are all completely meaningless in achieving happiness.
Thinking there is no problem doesn't make you free. Freeing your thinking makes the problem non-existant. Hope that helped.
gj
Originally posted by Dock9
I don't know ....
'Complete happiness' as a goal isn't something I've agonised over too much during my life
I'm more than grateful to feel relatively contented
The secret, imo, is to ensure the ambition is achievable
Just being tall doesn't mean someone will or can ever be a 'top basketball player' or 'top model'
Just being able to play a guitar and sing in tune won't make someone a 'star'
In generations past, people tailored their ambitions to their abilities
These days it seems people are being encouraged to a sense of entitlement. Which can only bring grief
'Believing in and following the dream' is no guarantee that dream will eventuate. We see the winners up there on the podiums. But we're not encouraged to see those who tried and worked just as hard, yet never made it, never will
Nostradumbass quote:
So every human on the Earth has one basic need:
Achieving complete happiness, a complete piece of mind.
No. They are not 'needs'. They're 'wishes'
Basic needs include water, food, shelter
Then, if those basic needs are met, we can get a bit fancier and add 'companionship' and 'relative safety', maybe even something to wear
Those who've eaten today, who've had access to water, to shelter, to medicine, to education, to electricity -- well, those are amongst the top 8% of the world's population (put things in perspective, huh ?)