posted on Mar, 29 2010 @ 09:54 AM
The whole idea of paying for sex is not something that goes well with women's sexuality in the first place.
I guess it's different for men. The more or less hidden neanderthaler in a man tells him that it is his "job" to spread his genes as much as
possible. And nature have given him freedom in the sense that he can make a woman pregnant and then simply walk away. There is not really any need for
an emotional bond or sympathy or love. His offspring is not his problem if he doesn't want to take responsibility.
It's a whole different thing for women. The neanderthaler in a woman is well aware that if a guy makes her pregnant, she is "stuck" with his
offspring. (I am not going to touch the subject of abortion here.) She simply can not afford to have sex with any idiot who comes along, there is a
good chance she will have the task to raise his child with his not so stellar genes... (Sorry, I know that sounds very cynical... )
So I think most women need to at least know the guy a little bit on a personal level. She needs to at least like the guy a little bit before she is
ready to have sex with him and is able to really enjoy it, before the neanderthaler in her says: "Go for it, girl!"
And I don't think the fact that we as modern women can protect ourselves against getting pregnant has changed our deep rooted sexuality that much. I
guess nature has a lot of catching up to do before paying a complete stranger to have sex with you feels right to most women. So why pay for something
you probaby are not going to enjoy that much anyway?
Besides, we girls like to feel attractive. We like to know that we are good looking enough to lure an attractive male to bed if we want him, and that
he will happily have sex with us without expecting a damn pay check for the "work"!