reply to post by Lookingup
You sound like my wife... On our first date i took her to a Roy Ayers concert... After the concert we was walking to the bus when she looked at me and
said the most romantic beautiful thing any bloke could hear...
"i'm starving... do you fancy a kebab?"
That was it... i had found my wife
Seriously... i have friends who are very jealous... if they take their wife to the cinema they have to watch the latest Rom Com staring Hugh Grant or
risk hour of huff's and puff's with negative comments about men and violence...
My wife HATES Rom Coms and Hugh Grant... She loves Sci-Fi, Action and some serious films... she loves football (although sadly she support Man U
Urrgh!!) and comse shooting with me on the weekends (although not at the moment cos shes pregnant)
Some of my friends have, what i would call, typical trophy wife’s... Blonde, Shallow, palettes petals who, you would think that, butter wouldn’t
melt in their mouths... But everything in their life is superficial... Try to discuss anything deeper than the latest TV drama and the response is a
I know that their relationships are unhappy, especially from the blokes point of view, who seem to put up with hours of endless nagging and high
credit card bills just to keep up an image!!!
My wife is a diamond... she is my friend as well as my lover... and she is one of the few women who can laugh when i fart, cheer when i blow a clay
pigeon out of the sky, and sympathise when my team loses at football!!
Men who pick trophy wife are normally just being shallow and will eventually pay the price for this shallowness
Saying all that... i am not a cave man... i do have a tender side and i can cry (yes men do cry too)
And my wife aint all muck and oil either LOL... Most of the time she is a tender caring mother and wife... it’s just that she aint afraid of my
Sometimes, these days, it seems that people are afraid of masculinity,... it’s often discouraged as if it’s some dangerous threat to humanity...
It’s not masculinity that’s the problem... its lack of morals and ethics mixed with a loss of identity that’s causing problems in my
[edit on 28-3-2010 by Muckster]