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Originally posted by ModernAcademia
reply to post by Jay-morris
www.queerbychoice.com
not all gays say so
Originally posted by ModernAcademia
But to say that homosexuality is not a choice and there is some DNA change causing homosexuality doesn't mean you are calling them mutants?
Originally posted by Jay-morris
God! You dont seem to understand. How the hell can you choose to be gay? How can you choose who to love? You throw questions at people, but you dont answer the questions thrown at you. This site does not prove anything at all, not one thing. It does not answer any of my questions.
Originally posted by ModernAcademia
Originally posted by Jay-morris
God! You dont seem to understand. How the hell can you choose to be gay? How can you choose who to love? You throw questions at people, but you dont answer the questions thrown at you. This site does not prove anything at all, not one thing. It does not answer any of my questions.
Fine let's start all over
please give me your questions in bullet point format and I will try and answer all of them
I promise!
Originally posted by Jay-morris
Ok, so you did not even read my questions if you are asking me to repeat them! Not suprised. And all you can come up with was that rether stupid website that proves nothing.
Originally posted by Jay-morris
So, if a gay person falls in love with another man, was that his choice to fall in love with him, or like us straight people, there was no choice, because we know we cant choose to fall in love with anyone.
Originally posted by Jay-morris
Also, do you believe that gay people are lying, and they chose to fall in love with someone of the same sex?
Originally posted by Jay-morris
Also, for all the gay people who have gone through hell. Lost there family and friends. Cried for days and months, even commiting suicide, that was because they chose to be gay?
Originally posted by ModernAcademia
Originally posted by makinho21
Isn't your deciding that homosexuality is bad simply your choice?
When did I say homosexuality is bad?
Please provide a quote of me saying
Originally posted by makinho21
I an neither gay or a gaybasher, i just find it funny that the tone of your post was as if you felt you had somehow "cornered" the gays with this new found insight and now they would have to - once and for all - pronounce themselves as in the wrong either way.
I'm sorry to tell you that you fail...
We are on like page what now?
Page 23 or something and after 23 pages you won't find me saying anywhere that I cornered Gays or said anything suggesting homosexuality is bad. But you just decided to say that for I don't know what reasons.
I'm sorry to tell you that you need to practice reading a little more
Your reading skills aren't too good
Originally posted by makinho21
maybe you should read my opening line a few more times : I assume your definition of mutation is somehow negative. If that is not correct, I am sorry, but the way you presented your post is: here is one possible reality - gays are "mutations" - if they are not, it is simply their choice.
I am serious, if they are not homosexual by choice then please explain to me how that is not mutation.
No I am not calling homosexual mutants, if YOU say they do not make that choice then YOU are saying they are!
Originally posted by Jay-morris
If you believe that we all choose to fall in love, then why did you nake a thread just about gay people? surely what you basically means concerns us all, and not just a group, that seems strange to me.
They chose not to move on with their lives
I also would like to add that if they truly believed that they choose to be gay then that perhaps that would empower them to choose to move on as well.
Perhaps this many suicides and depressions would not have occured so much as it has. Just perhaps!
With that mentality you would definately empower them
They would think that their lives are in their own hands more
Saying gay people are not gay by choice if anything weakens gays.
Because you are telling them that their lives are not in their hands.
You are perhaps suppressing their freedoms in doing so.
Originally posted by ModernAcademia
Originally posted by Jay-morris
If you believe that we all choose to fall in love, then why did you nake a thread just about gay people? surely what you basically means concerns us all, and not just a group, that seems strange to me.
Love is not a choice is not something I knew to be a topic really
Also please comment on what I mentioned about the idea that if gay people believed that being gay was a choice that perhaps would empower them and there wouldn't be so much sadness and suicide.
What do you think of that?
Thoughts?
Homosexuality is a choice and nothing else!