Please stop asking for people to interpret your dreams.. it's nonsense., page 1
Pages: <<  1    2  >>
ATS Members have flagged this thread 4 times


reply posted on 19-3-2010 @ 02:13 AM by togetherwestand
Originally posted by Dank513
It makes absolutely NO sense to ask for someone else to interpret your dreams. They are YOURS and yours alone, only you can come to conclusions about the meaning they may have for you. Noone else has your subconcious, your experiences, or your life. So how could they possibly be able to interpret a dream you had? That is nonsense.

If you want clarity, learn to lucid dream, In my experience I have beaten many inner demons, and realized many things about myself. But again, those are things that I had to find out for myself, noone else could tell me what my dreams meant for me. It's nonsense to think such a thing.
They would base your dream upon experiences that they had, and not your own. So, the conclusion would not be what it really meant for you, but what it would have meant to them.

Again I ask, Please stop asking others to interpret your dreams. It's ridiculous.

But hey, that is just my opinion, a good one, but an opinion nonetheless.
If you want someone else to tell you something about yourself that you don't already know, you must REALLY not know who you are.

I'm not saying don't share your dreams, by all means please do, that is what this is here for, but to have someone tell you what it meant? stupid.


Take my advice. Click this link.
Lucid Dreaming


edit for spelling.

[edit on 19-3-2010 by Dank513]


I have to agree, there are too manny threads of people wanting others to interpret dreams for them and although others can help, no one knows for sure the symbology and meaning of dreams, its rooted in the psych of the person who had them, they are the ones who can only figure it out as they dreamt them.

[edit on 19-3-2010 by togetherwestand]



reply posted on 19-3-2010 @ 04:59 AM by eight bits
Despite the offensive tone of the OP, the topic is interesting.

I often post replies to dream threads. All my replies have the disclaimer that I don't interpret other people's dreams.

Obviously, that is not the same as having nothing to say about another person's dreams. Symbolic thought is not something that everybody is equally comfortable with. It is entirely appropriate, then, to talk things over with other people, the same as is it is appropriate to talk about other things that happen, other problems you are working on, etc.

In any case, the remedy to BS is not different BS. For example,

Noone else has your subconcious, your experiences, or your life.

BS, unless of course you have evidence to back it up.

Jung is usually credited with observing that much of the contents of the unconscious are shared among people, even across time and cultural differences. This is the so-called collective unconscious, and my "copy" of it is, for any practical purpose, identical to your "copy," or anybody else's.

Nor should this be surprising, given the obvious similarity in neural architecture within the species, and the visible similarities in the "template biography" we all share.

If you want clarity, learn to lucid dream

Fine, but not everybody easily dreams lucidly, and not everybody wants to dream lucidly, more than they do spontaneously.

There is no reason to think that being aware that you are dreaming while you are dreaming improves the quality of symbolic thought. And as to interpretation, the lucid dream web forums offer daily testimony that being aware of a dream while dreaming it does nothing for understanding.

But again, those are things that I had to find out for myself, noone else could tell me what my dreams meant for me.

Yes, ultimately the worker must do the work. That is no reason not to seek advice about how to do the work.

This is especially true of dreams with a high proportion of archetypal, collective unconscious, content. I can't imagine ever succeeding in interpreting a dream which billions of others have dreamt over the several millennia for which we have records, without knowing that you are the not the first to dream the dream.

And what you propose is worse than that. Not merely ignorance that a particular dream has been dreamt by billions, but the fantasy that on the contrary, you are the only one, ever, and the source of this dream is what is unique about "your unconscious, your experiences, or your life."

Once you know that you are not alone, then it is reasonable, even common-sensical, to ask "What did these other people make of the dream that is the same as mine?"

Of course, that doesn't mean these other people got it right. But it is difficult to see how ignoring others' experience improves your chances of understanding, and easy to see how fantasies that you are the first will decrease your chances of understanding.

you must REALLY not know who you are.

There is nothing shameful about not knowing something. And this bit of shouting is hardly an argument for not seeking advice about what a dream has shown you about who you are.

[edit on 19-3-2010 by eight bits]


reply posted on 20-3-2010 @ 01:03 PM by Novise
I don't want to discourage anyone from asking for dream interpretations. Though I think sometimes people (ab)use that to get people to read about their dream. Especially when they are like "help!"

If you go on and on about how you think your dream is a prophecy and how it's significant you are showing what sort of answer you are looking for.

Just tell the dream and don't try to manipulate the feedback you get, it will be tainted if you do. And it's annoying knowing someone just wants to hear me tell them they had a prophetic or profound experience, and they aren't going to listen if I give an objective answer.

Ultimately the best thing you can do with dreams is simply "Do it yourself" as the OP suggested. Journalling, educate youreself on lucid dreaming websites and books, it's very easy to get into and have your own experience in no time - anyone can do it.

But I welcome people sharing their dreams certainly, the more time you spend reading about dreams, reading others dreams and sharing your own, the more success you will have in dreaming. To be able to share them in the open-minded attitude of ATS is a good backdrop especially if you are looking at dreams in a spiritual or psychic fashion. Which is a little bit out there, but I think if anyone has any reason to think something paranormal is occuring they SHOULD post it, and let the thread speak for itself. But I don't think they should try to manipulate the feedback they receive.


reply posted on 20-3-2010 @ 01:26 PM by Greenize
reply to post by Dank513



I have never understood posts like this one.
You come in here, create a thread telling people that in "your opinion" you think that them asking others for help is nonsense, ridiculous and lastly, stupid. If you do not like those threads then simply don't go in them!
I am sure some of those same people would find your thread nonsense, ridiculous and stupid. See that sounds very rude to me. Part of what I think makes ATS great is feeling that folks can come in here and talk about whatever they want to, no matter how outlandish it may seem to others, without fear of ridicule! Healthy debate, sure! Not insults and giving one the feeling that they just posted something "stupid". That is my opinion.


reply posted on 20-3-2010 @ 02:23 PM by v01i0
While OP is absolutely correct about dreams being individual, and should be hence interpret subjectively, one needs also keep in mind that there may be archetypical figures/events in dreams that doesn't vary much regardless of gender, race, nationality etc.

So it is not totally useless to ask help in interpretation, providing that one has someone with sufficient experience to be capable of interpreting them.

-v



reply posted on 20-3-2010 @ 07:20 PM by SPACEYstranger
reply to post by SeekerofTruth101



yeah, but if every tom dick and harry came on the boards every morning when they woke up and started talking about and describing their dreams then what would that accomplish?

I cannot stand when people will ask and ask and ask for things when the answers are right in front of them. If everyone constantly rely on other people to put the pieces together then we would all be dumber for it.

Sure, everyone is free to speak as much as they want. But again when you start talking you stop thinking. Just because you have something to say or ask doesnt mean you should do so. Sure, its your right, but you could ask questions all day about the things you see and hear day to day.

but, nobody will have a correct answer to give you. Sure, someone may have an interesting insight, but it is one that the dreamer is equally capable of reaching by himself.

Plus, something as abstract as dreams should not be interpreted by anyone but yourself. Its just ridiculous to think someone could tell you more about yourself then you already know because of images produced by your subconscious. No archetype can adhere to the individual rules inside your head.

You will gain nothing from other peoples interpretations of your dream. and others have nothing to gain from hearing your dreams.
Pages: <<  1    2  >>    ^^TOP^^



Message Dream Last Night: "Torque in the Human Body"
  Posted 10 days ago with 7 member flags
Doomsday Dream - Given an 18 Hour Notice
  Posted 2 days ago with 7 member flags
Second coming... Just a dream or something more?
  Posted 14 days ago with 5 member flags
I spoke to a dead celebrity in a dream last night.
  Posted 10 days ago with 4 member flags
New Dream
  Posted 11 days ago with 3 member flags
I saw the Sun ache
  Posted 11 days ago with 3 member flags
My trip to a FEMA camp
  Posted 5 days ago with 3 member flags

Newest topics getting replies, in real-time:

Santorum wants more fracking!!!
  US Political Madness, Posted 12 hours ago, 53 replies
Pass Me My Rifle
  World War Three, Posted 8 hours ago, 52 replies