reply to post by Doomsday 2029
I can relate to some of what you are saying. I think a lot of the upper societies are suffering right now because we have gotten a little big for our
britches.
I think our focus has gotten a bit out of whack. Our priorities are a bit screwed up and we have forgotten what is really important. I know that
some things suck right now, but I believe you are re-focusing and the things nearest you are becoming clearer while the things further out, that you
are discovering really don't matter are losing thier focus.
I truly believe that we need to learn that is OKAY to lose that focus and re-adjust our way of thinking. I have had to do this recently not so much
becuase of the economy but because of a medical diagnosis. Nothing life threatening at the time and not shattering because I won't allow it to be,
but.....a 're-focusing' event.
I strongly feel that while the erruption of technology has connected us in so many ways....is also pushing us apart on a more personal, near level.
fifty years ago, most people were concerned most with their immediate family, felt strong about their immediate community and watched the news every
once in awhile but mostly read the paper to learn about what was going on in the rest of the country first, and lastly the rest of the world.
I think all this instant info at our fingertips has put a terrible burden on us all. All of a sudden we have to worry about the rest of the world.
Not only that, but we need to worry about our own personal footprint or impact we personally have, we are told over and over and over and over and
over again. While I
should be focusing on my husband and kids concerns and needs (and yes, amazingly enough, even my own), I spend so much
time worrying about the flood in China, and the starving people in Africa and the dying people in Haiti and the war in Irag and the temple that is
being dedicated and the earthquakes on the other side of the world and the politics in russia and germany and turkey. Then there is the healthcare
reform and the jobless rates and the gas prices and the CIA and the FBI and DEA and the FDA and the CDC....OMG!!!! Then, if that weren't enough we
have the fear campaign ran by our government to keep it's flock in check. I have to worry about the bird flu and the swine flu and the seasonal flu
and TB and measles and Small pox and anthrax and nuclear weapons and biological weapons and global warming and it just goes on and on and on and
on......
So yes, I can relate to what you and SOOOOOOO many other people are feeling right now.
You know what I have decided to do about it?
As little as possible!!!! I have recently cut back on my hours at work (thank god we as a family
can afford it). I hardly ever watch the news, try not to talk politics, try not to focus on all the disasters occuring around the world (although I
am very fascinated in my local geology) and am trying to get back to basics.
I am trying to get back to more home-made foods and less processed crap. I am trying to spend more time just being with my family and supporting them
and being there for them. I plan on spending more time in my yard this spring and actually planting a garden. I am going to try and give back more
to my community and get involved.
Bottom line: BACK TO BASICS.
I can do NOTHING that is going to make a difference in Iraq or Africa or Haiti or even my own national government. But I
can make a differnce
in my childrens lives and even in my community. I am going to concentrate in the things that I can control and make a difference in. I feel that if
more of us did that, we have a whole lot less sh#t to deal with.
Life is a great ride, we just need to learn to enjoy it and not scream the whole way through.