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reply posted on 15-3-2010 @ 08:09 AM by Merriman Weir
Originally posted by ziggystar60
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post by geek101



Ok, let us say that this woman is as bad as the "feeder".


Have you any idea as to how begrudging that sounds? It's as if you're only paying lip service to the idea that both people are messed-up. Ultimately, you're blaming the evil man and the woman is just a poor victim that desperately needs help. Yes, we get it.

She is slowly comitting suicide by eating herself to death, by her own free will, and her partner has nothing to do with it.


And yet, I've not actually seen anyone say this. People seem to be saying that they're both complicit in this: no body appears to be saying the man is wholly innocent.

I get the impression (from your post) you're framing this like this because you've started off as an absolute position: the woman is the victim and the man is the villain and it's pretty clear cut to you. Now, to make your point all you can do is literally turn the position around. This isn't about absolutes and a black and white view point and is far more complex than the 'sick, evil man' theory that you're trying to pass off.

No. This man is sick and evil. Pure and simple.


And so it goes.


reply posted on 15-3-2010 @ 09:13 AM by Merriman Weir
Originally posted by ziggystar60

Hi, I am sorry, but I am not sure what you mean when you say that I am "paying lip service". (I am Norwegian.) But after reading your post I guess you are not very impressed by it?


Don't apologise! It's my fault for using an idiom that you're not familiar with. Basically, it means that whilst you appear to be saying something (in this case that you agree the woman is also at fault) but the rest of what you're saying doesn't match-up as the rest of what you say comes down to 'it's the sick, evil, twisted man's fault!'.

I should say that I'm humbled by your English usage - as I am by many on this site. I wish my second languages were as good as yours.

Anyway, what makes the whole difference between this man and this woman is the fact that what is going on is actually threatening her LIFE. This woman is stupid, gullible, and yes, perhaps she is willing to die for fame. But that only makes her a moron with some serious self esteem issues. It does not make her evil.


Many men allow their partners to increase their risk of cancer through smoking. Many men allow their partners to increase their risk of all kinds of medical problems by general over-eating and an obesity on a much smaller scale than the obesity in this story. Where do you draw the line? At what point is it the partner's fault and at what point is it 'none of his damn business!!!!'


I stand by what I said about the man, watching the woman you "love" eat herself to death, and even encourage and help her to do it because you get sexually aroused by it, IS evil. Nothing will make me change my mind about that, sorry.


Again though, you've got a very simplistic view of the dynamic of these kinds of relationships. It's not sexual in the way you'd think: there's more of a power dynamic that they both share.

So we should just agree to disagree.


No problem!


reply posted on 15-3-2010 @ 09:28 AM by wayaboveitall
'It makes people happy, and I'm not harming anyone.'

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www.dailymail.co.uk...


Wrong! Stupid selfish woman. Pity the child when mummy pops off from a heartattack soon. Some folk dont deserve to be parents. Her bloke is obviously just as stupid and selfish, or was.

Many of us have unhealthy habits, but im sure not so many of us have a deliberate death wish. Deliberate obesity is an insult to the hungry and and an insult to health care system.

She says she's just back from Japan and was treated like royalty there. Maybe they mistook her for a sumo wrestler


I think Sumo's are healthier than her though, they burn calories.



[edit on 15-3-2010 by wayaboveitall]



reply posted on 15-3-2010 @ 10:13 AM by Digital_Reality

she runs a website where men pay her to watch her eat fast food.

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www.dailymail.co.uk...



Men pay to watch her stuff her hole with McDonald's? I'm not sure which is more disgusting. Who would pay for such a thing?
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