posted on May, 26 2010 @ 12:55 AM
I am extremely skeptical of the diagnosis process in most disorders, both physical and mental. It seems as though they are diagnosing many people with
mental disorders that really don't have these illnesses or any illness at all. There could be many reasons for this but if I had to guess, I would
guess that it's a way to drug to the public and also categorize people.
Take for instance my ex-wife and the mother of my son. She grew up in a small French speaking town here in America. She is very intelligent and highly
successful, having completed graduate school at an ivy-league university and landing a very successful career in the financial industry.
Anyway, after a trip to Europe about 7 years ago, she became depressed and quit a six-figure salary job because she became disillusioned with the
industry and found that her job interfered with her morals and her family obligations, among other things. After stepping off the latter that she was
so determined to climb, she took a simple job waiting tables at a high-end restaurant owned by a friend of ours and obviously not for the money, but
rather to keep busy and interact with others. Of course this hurt us financially and at that time, we had to make some major cut-backs because me
being in the military, didn't bring in a whole lot of money, though certainly enough to get by. This only added to her depression.
Anyway, because of her depression, which I fervently believe even until this day, that it was just a phase, we took her to see a psychiatrist who
immediately put her on a few chemical medications. He then put her in an institution for about three weeks to run some tests and when all was said and
done, she was diagnosed with bipolar disorder and put her on more chemicals. While I was distrusting of this diagnosis, she was not and bought it
hook, line and sinker.
We have several friends who are drug-reps and we hear the stories at dinner parties are what have you, about the extravagant luncheons and focused
lobbying of medical professionals on behalf of certain medications, the main ones being mental health medications.
Never before had she had a manic experience until a couple years after taking these chemicals recommended by her mental health doctors. She would go
through these weird experiences such as staying awake for days and practically turning into a different person. It got to the point where she
couldn't be trusted alone with the kids. Her doctors had told us that these bad manic spurts were because of the medications or lack thereof and
after adjustments and more chemicals, she would seemingly return to herself. I have always maintained that it her condition was the sole consequence
of the chemicals that she was forcing her body to consume.
It wound up getting to the point where she tried to take her own life and so was subsequently put into another mental hospital. After another three
weeks, they had called me in for a "family meeting". After arriving, they informed me that the were going to add the diagnosis of borderline
personality disorder to her existing diagnosis of bipolar disorder and they were going to prescribe her additional medications. I thought to myself,
"here we go again" and so I took the lead doctor aside and expressed my concerns with these medications to which point she told me that I should
research the disorder before coming to any conclusions and then when into this shtick about how everyone experiences some personal denial when it
comes to a family members or self being diagnosed with these mental health disorders and that a normal life can be achieved with the right medications
and therapy. She then told me she would gather some information on the disorder for me and ordered one of her subordinates to get right on it.
After her subordinate returned with the information, it was all fliers, pamphlets and documents from the pharmaceutical company Pfizer, listing
symptoms and of course medications and treatments sponsored or manufactured by Pfizer. Even still, I was willing to keep an open mind because after
all, this was the health and life of the mother of my children and one of my best friends. My wife (now my ex-wife though still a very good friend)
then grab the stack of papers and flyers, searched through it and finally stopped on a paper listing the symptoms and of course, this symptom sheet
was created by Pfizer, with their logo right on the front. She told me, "See honey, I have most of those symptoms. I really do have the disorder".
when I looked at the symptoms, I couldn't believe my eyes and I had had enough. These symptoms, in fact all of these symptoms were symptoms that
everyone has at certain points in their life, including the doctors. Some of these symptoms included (though I'm sure there are more):
• Avoiding abandonment
• Have difficulty with relationships
• Unsure of his or her own identity or unstable self-image
• Impulsive purchases
• Mood swings
• Have problems controlling anger
I also think it pertinent to add that even on that flier, it states that someone doesn't need to meet all or even a majority of these symptoms to be
diagnosed with borderline personality disorder and to quickly speak with a medical professional to get help. What the flier doesn't tell you, is that
the company producing that flier, spends millions of dollars on gifts and extravagant lunches and other lobbying efforts to persuade the doctors to
prescribe their medications. In the pharma-rep industry, a doctor who prescribes more of your company's medicine, is a doctor who will be treated
better by the pharmaceutical companies and pharma-reps, even going as far to offer lucrative retirement deals that puts these doctors on a salary for
an "advisory" role in the company, after retirement of course.
So, basically what the flier is doing is getting you to believe that you may have the disorder because of course you will have some, if not all of
those symptoms and the doctor that you will see, is on their payroll, all but enduring them a new life-long customer.
Anyway, I raised a big stink in that family meeting, after reading those symptoms and the manner in which they were getting my wife to believe that
she had a mental disorder that she probably didn't have.
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