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Originally posted by jrod
I don't want to loose what I have over some stupid website I never should have signed up on. Any thoughts of where to go from here?
omg ... so get this! sO, he left his gmail open last nite...i shuda left it alone,but damn
couriosity killd my sOuL turns out that 1 OFTHE many singles website he said "he deleted". he didnt. [grantit he hasnt been on the site since we been 2gethr] BUT he said he never meet any of those skanks and with a lil investigation Searchd his IMs, AND OFthe like 3o+ SAVED contacts THE 1ST 3 I READ WERE LIKE "GOOD SEEIN YOU THE OTHER DAY" ...[R U FUKN KIDDN ME] BOLD FACE LIES [!!!] SOOO MANY OF THEM [!!!] he said "he didnt remember" hah. yahrite. but when he DID remember he "recalled" the name of the places,there names!!!. ..."what happnd to the bad memory???" [MORE LIES] even worse...he says im bein "rediculous" [R!]
i[UHG!!!] ts nOt even the profiles and #t That im so upset about...its the LIES. i cant trust him @ALL this is the 2nd argument about him lieN to me. hes says hez sorry, but then hell be like "i didnt DO anything wrong" pshhhh[!!!] Xcept LIEn TO ME[!!!] i swear i think ID RATHER date a playr thats honest, then sum1 i cant trust.
[gasp] SPEAKN of which: hez all like "im not a player" & "im not that kind of guy"
LOL_ in his gmail, hez writn "i loveyou/missyou to BOTH his Xs @ the SAME TYME [!!!] ya...[just like a guy] playOnFuknPlaya.
SO i went to the titty bar sOLo last nite. [str8 tequlla nite] came hOme and he posted this pritty Long "need realationship advice" blog on like 3 websites. [but from his point of view].Many many responces ALL bashn me...whatever. all talkn bout if thrz no trust, it aint worth savin. [truth] but ive been NUTHINGBUT honest with him and he broke the trust.
lemmee paste:::
on the flip side, she's the kind of girl who won't cheat on you.
Originally posted by jrod
I've been dating a girl for about 6 months and I am completly in love with her. She has had bad experiences in the past so when she wanted to look through my emails I didn't have any problems given her past. She stumbled upon emails from a dating site I signed up for way before we met. When we started dating I deleted profiles and such from such accounts except this one, I just simply changed my status to married and deleted my pics because I didn't bother to go through the steps it wanted to delete my profile completly. Big mistake, she came across old emails from the site and asked me if I remembered my info, I did and used one of my generic passwords and figured I have nothing to hide so I didn't mind her looking through the said site.
So I had scores of contacts on that site, but never got involved with anyone. She flipped and is now convinced I've been playing her. She asked my about some of the girls on there and I truly didn't remember most of them being most were a few email exchanges, and maybe 3 of them I actually went out with once or twice with no fireworks. Even though the timeline is true, all the emails were before we started dating she is convinced that I am playing her and she has even told me she thinks I have alternate emails and have been going behind her back. Nothing I say matters to her now since she thinks I am a player. We've spent almost everyday together and every single night together since we got involved yet she still thinks I have time to see someone else.
I am in love with this girl and dont now where to go from here. She has told me she wished she never met me and I have decieved her which hurts me more than anything. I'm old to know that I need to be with someone who trusts me. I don't want to loose her and up until today all indications were she wanted to marry me. Now my once perfect relationship is destroyed.
I don't want to loose what I have over some stupid website I never should have signed up on. Any thoughts of where to go from here?
I don't want to loose what I have over some stupid website I never should have signed up on. Any thoughts of where to go from here?