Originally posted by jrod
I don't want to loose what I have over some stupid website I never should have signed up on. Any thoughts of where to go from here?
It's not the website or anything she saw on it. She was obviously looking for something to break up with you over. Maybe not consciously but subconsciously maybe. She has to deal with her own demons before she'll be able to have any kind of relationship with anyone, including you. And, it's obvious she has not. She should never have entered a new relationship with someone until she had dealt with her own stuff. But a lot of people do this because they don't want to deal with their problems. Kind of like what addicts do. I wouldn't touch her with a ten foot pole again until she's healthy again... it will only lead to heartache as you are now seeing. I'm sorry for you, I really am but she really did do you a favor breaking up with you before you married her.