reply to post by plutoxgirl
Being human is a strange state of conflicts. Sometimes, we wish to conform. Others, we want to stand out. Being normal is to be lauded, while being
mediocre is to be feared. Its the same state but changing the way you say it -- normal versus mediocre -- makes the same state mean different things.
Some people suffer in the modern mindset everyday is that we expect the impossible from our all too human selves. Men and women are expecting
themselves to be able to play all roles, to be able to construct work, home, family and play successfully and beautifully. The inability to exercise a
divine omnipotence in perfecting our lives and our influence among those around us may plague too many with a sense of failure. There are those with
overblown sense of responsibility and of expectation from what they should be.
Its human to be a bit stupid with our dreams. However, it is important to remember that we live in an age of overpopulation and standing out is
unlikely as ever. No matter where you are in the hierarchy, there will be someone who is better. There will be a better scientist, cook, friend,
lover, mathematician or blogger.
I'm as guilty as anyone of sometimes fantasising of doing something that matters, of being responsible for a breakthrough in this or that, of
changing the world. Everyone's already working on the problems, on the ideas you can have. All you can do is help.
The world is too big for you to change anything hugely significant in it alone.
I'm not proposing that aspiring itself is wrong. That's also not socially constructive: how would we have achieve progress thinking that way? What
is actually wrong is allowing the inability to achieve a near impossibility as soul crushing or depressing.
Greatness is local. I believe where meaning and satisfaction lies is in what difference you make to the people in front of you and around you. You
start with the self, the home, the community and then the country. Everything follows by the local examples you set and changes you make; this should
also be where you find happiness.
There is greatness in attending properly to a child, in a job well done, in helping a neighbour, in generating local safety, in teaching a lesson, in
preventing a crime by your or others, in inspiring someone, in contributing towards collective knowledge and in everyday kindness.
That's where I see greatness and that's where I appreciate it