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Are you suicidal?!?
Originally posted by The Teller
Where is this model of needing two separate gender parents come from?
I'm a single father raising my two daughters on my own. Both excel in school and socially. Are often commented on for their manners and politeness and both love all things girly.
If you have a family around you who can help then what's the problem? Isn't that what family is for, isn't that what the church teaches about family?
You only have to look at the studies in to the Cinderella Effect to see how often remoulded separate gender families can be detrimental to children. I know that may be slightly ingenuous to the argument but I write it to show that no matter what model you have there will be problems.
For example look at the Bridgend Suicides in Wales and see if you can find a connection.
Ya know what? Screw that.
I dont need to sit here and explain my life to you. I provide my daughtor with what she needs, and shes a happy little girl. Our family is, and will always be perfect for us. I dont care at this point what you do or dont agree with.
[edit on 2/25/2010 by KevinHavoc]
Originally posted by mike-harris
r u suprised, school must be hard for these people, its somthing that people pick up on, and will use it against the person making it hell for them.
people may get scared of the world will be like if it carried on.
its sad to see humans inflicting pain on humnans mentally or physcilly
Originally posted by Death_Kron
reply to post by The Teller
Generally in homosexual relationships one partner is the more dominant while the other is the more submissive/passive.
Originally posted by KyoZero
Originally posted by Death_Kron
reply to post by The Teller
Generally in homosexual relationships one partner is the more dominant while the other is the more submissive/passive.
Same thing with hetero families. That is a big argument. Lots of times one parent will be dominant in comparison to the other
-Kyo
Originally posted by Death_Kron
reply to post by toochaos4u
Okay, I'll admit you've countered that argument very well and from what you say you obviously have a close and loving relationship with your daughter.
In your personal circumstances your right to say that your daugthers mother could provide her with nothing you couldn't, fair enough.
Let me ask you a question though, without sound disrespectful but you sound a feminine gay and seem to have adopted all the roles a female childs mother would.
With this in mind how do you in the same instance provide the roles a female childs father would in a heterosexual relationship?
Originally posted by The Teller
reply to post by Death_Kron
You said you would rather a child be in a single parent household than with two gay parents. So does that mean you don't oppose a single gay man adopting a child then?
Originally posted by Death_Kron
reply to post by toochaos4u
Apologises for the mistake, I thought we was talking about your daughter.
Once again I'll admit you've answered the question well and fair play to you for making it work, you sound like a caring parent.
Couple of more things then; if you can adopt both roles between masculine and feminine then what role does your partner play with regards to your niece?
Also, how does your niece deal with your relationship to your partner?
Is she completely happy with it and at ease? Does she understand it?
I'm not trying to be personal just trying to look at the situation in a variety of ways in order to try and understand it better.