Sexual Stigma Survery Part 1, page 1
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Topic started on 17-2-2010 @ 07:50 AM by KyoZero
Hey Folks. I am starting my Masters in Clinical Therapy this year (so excited). Anywho, one of the requirements is a graduate thesis and since I am studying victims of child sexual assault I have already chosen my topic. My graduate thesis topic is the stigma of child predation and pedophilia across gender lines. I have already interviewed over 100 people and I thought it would be interesting to see what ATS thought on these matters. Since this is anonymous and I can’t do certain portions regarding demographics, none of your responses will be used in the statistics that will make up the thesis itself. This is merely for me to learn…well actually all of us to learn. I will not lead you in any way. I want you to answer as honestly as you can without fear. So that means it would be really nice if the flamers would stay out.

There is absolutely no trolling intended here.

Instructions: You will be given a few scenarios. In each case it your job to be judge, jury and executioner. Your decision is final and there will be no turning back. In each scenario you will list how much if any jail time is given to each party. You will also determine if either or both parties will receive counseling. Also you have complete freedom to determine any other punishment no matter how much it deviates from the norm. Afterwards there will be a few questions to which you can answer in as much or as little detail as you like.

Any further questions can be posed to me

Here we go

Scenario 1:

Abuser: 32 year old male
Victim: 13 year old female
Incident: 32 year old male is found guilty of statutory rape of a 13 year old minor female. There is no signs of forced or aggravated circumstances and the minor female did willingly commit the sexual act

Scenario 2:

Abuser: 38 year old female
Victim: 14 year old male
Incident: 38 year old female is found guilty of statutory rape of a 14 year old minor male. There is no signs of forced or aggravated circumstances and the minor male did willingly commit the sexual act

Scenario 3:

Abuser: 39 year old male
Victim: 14 year old male
Incident: 39 year old male is found guilty of statutory rape, aggravated sexual assault and rape of a 14 year old minor male. There are numerous signs of forced or aggravated circumstances to the minor male.

Scenario 4:

Abuser: 42 year old female
Victim: 14 year old female
Incident: 42 year old female is found guilty of statutory rape, aggravated sexual assault and rape of a 14 year old minor female. There are numerous signs of forced or aggravated circumstances to the minor female.

Question 1: If you had absolute power, what age of consent would you make the entire United States? No state laws will be enacted to change your ruling. Your final age will be the standard and law for the entire country. You may add any age gap laws If you choose to do so.

Question 2: Should a male and female convicted of the same crime (statutory rape) be treated the same in a court of law?

Question 3: Should any punishment be given to the victims of Scenario 1 or 2 since the victim was consensual in the act?

Question 4: Does a minor (regardless of gender) have the true ability to understand the consequences of their actions before age 18?

Again…trolls and flamers please stay out. This is serious and I will not attack or joke about any member regardless of their answers. I am 100% genuinely interested in the responses.

Thanks folks and I look forward to the responses.

Part 2 of the survery

-Kyo


[edit on 17-2-2010 by KyoZero]

[edit on 17-2-2010 by KyoZero]


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 09:47 AM by KyoZero
Thanks alot!

Great response and thank you for taking it seriously

-Kyo



reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 09:55 AM by Nurv47
reply to post by KyoZero



Scenario 1: 5 years in prison, followed by mandatory counseling for the abuser and optional counseling decided by the parents of the victim.

Scenario 2: Same as scenario 1 (My first opinion was also that it was a lesser crime simply because a woman was the abuser and the victim was male ... but there is no reason to act on these thoughts)

Scenario 3: 20 years in prison, no possibility for parole, followed by mandatory counseling for the abuser and mandatory counseling for the victim.

Scenario 4: Same as 3.

Question 1: It should be decided at the state level IMO but ... I would choose 16.

Question 2: Yes, absolutely. There should be no discrimination between woman and men regardless of the crime.

Question 3: No I do not believe that any punishment should be given to the victims of scenario 1 and 2.

Question 4: It would depend on the person truthfully ... I think young people deserve a lot more credit then they receive.

EDIT: In all instances the abusers would be required to register as a sex offender.












[edit on 17-2-2010 by Nurv47]


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 09:58 AM by Fromabove
To the OP, for some reason when I answered the questions it came up looking like it was part of your quote. I must have done something incorrect while posting. I have separated my answers by a line, thanks.


Originally posted by KyoZero
Hey Folks. I am starting my Masters in Clinical Therapy this year (so excited). Anywho, one of the requirements is a graduate thesis and since I am studying victims of child sexual assault I have already chosen my topic. My graduate thesis topic is the stigma of child predation and pedophilia across gender lines. I have already interviewed over 100 people and I thought it would be interesting to see what ATS thought on these matters. Since this is anonymous and I can’t do certain portions regarding demographics, none of your responses will be used in the statistics that will make up the thesis itself. This is merely for me to learn…well actually all of us to learn. I will not lead you in any way. I want you to answer as honestly as you can without fear. So that means it would be really nice if the flamers would stay out.

There is absolutely no trolling intended here.

Instructions: You will be given a few scenarios. In each case it your job to be judge, jury and executioner. Your decision is final and there will be no turning back. In each scenario you will list how much if any jail time is given to each party. You will also determine if either or both parties will receive counseling. Also you have complete freedom to determine any other punishment no matter how much it deviates from the norm. Afterwards there will be a few questions to which you can answer in as much or as little detail as you like.

Any further questions can be posed to me

Here we go

Scenario 1:

Abuser: 32 year old male
Victim: 13 year old female
Incident: 32 year old male is found guilty of statutory rape of a 13 year old minor female. There is no signs of forced or aggravated circumstances and the minor female did willingly commit the sexual act
__________________________________________________________
Three years jail time, an additional three years probation, sex offender register. Forbidden to be within access to children 16 and under.
___

Scenario 2:

Abuser: 38 year old female
Victim: 14 year old male
Incident: 38 year old female is found guilty of statutory rape of a 14 year old minor male. There is no signs of forced or aggravated circumstances and the minor male did willingly commit the sexual act
___________________________________________________________
Seven years probation. Forbidden to have access to any child under the age of 16.
___

Scenario 3:

Abuser: 39 year old male
Victim: 14 year old male
Incident: 39 year old male is found guilty of statutory rape, aggravated sexual assault and rape of a 14 year old minor male. There are numerous signs of forced or aggravated circumstances to the minor male.
_____________________________________________________________
10 years imprisonment. 15 years probation. Forbidden to have access to a child under 16. Cannot be near schools and daycare centers.
___

Scenario 4:

Abuser: 42 year old female
Victim: 14 year old female
Incident: 42 year old female is found guilty of statutory rape, aggravated sexual assault and rape of a 14 year old minor female. There are numerous signs of forced or aggravated circumstances to the minor female.
__________________
Same as item # 3
___

Question 1: If you had absolute power, what age of consent would you make the entire United States? No state laws will be enacted to change your ruling. Your final age will be the standard and law for the entire country. You may add any age gap laws If you choose to do so.
__________________________________________________
For a female 15 years of age. For a male 18 years of age.
___

Question 2: Should a male and female convicted of the same crime (statutory rape) be treated the same in a court of law?
____
No.
___

Question 3: Should any punishment be given to the victims of Scenario 1 or 2 since the victim was consensual in the act?
____
No.
___

Question 4: Does a minor (regardless of gender) have the true ability to understand the consequences of their actions before age 18?
_______________________________
Yes. Except where mentally deficient.
___

Again…trolls and flamers please stay out. This is serious and I will not attack or joke about any member regardless of their answers. I am 100% genuinely interested in the responses.



Thanks folks and I look forward to the responses.

-Kyo




[edit on 17-2-2010 by Fromabove]


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 09:58 AM by The Wave
reply to post by KyoZero



HI,

Would agree with MysterE except for Q1 (in the UK the age of consent is 16) and Q4 which I would likewise change to 16.

Considering that learning to drive a car (with all the responsibility and consequences) is allowed in Europe at 17 or under, I believe 18 is too old.

Conversely, marketing and media are helping to push children into adulthood at a far earlier age and number of pregnancies of early teens is frightening.

Peace!


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 10:02 AM by vjr1113
reply to post by Nurv47



I live in california, and I have to say these kids are just... not very critical thinkers. Especially 16 year olds, seeing as I have 16 yo friends. Most are immature and I would absolutely not trust them buying beer and such.

I do agree with you that it should be at a state level tho.



reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 10:07 AM by Nurv47
reply to post by vjr1113



I lived in Califronia for nearly 7 years and I agree with you that a lot of the kids there are not very good at critical thinking ... but most of the kids I was around in school had sex anyways regardless of the law ... It is the parents responsibility to make sure their kids understand the consequences of their actions, not the government. (at least in my opinion)

[edit on 17-2-2010 by Nurv47]


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 10:08 AM by KyoZero
reply to post by The Wave



Ahh Wave you've read right through me!

There is actually a whole second portion of the survey that asks a very open ended question and gets some astoundingly intelligent results from laypersons. I am actually targetting the entire survery at lay people. I don't want PhD's...I don't want doctors I want the people to tell me som things. Perhaps I will start a second thread with the second portion of the survey.

Thanks to all of you. I was apprehensive posting this here but we seem to have some very mature people afterall

-Kyo


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 10:15 AM by Bunken Drum
reply to post by KyoZero
Scenario 1
Abuser: 1yr jail + 10yrs probation with mandatory counselling for at least 3yrs as a requirement to avoid going back to jail on initial release. Longer at the discretion of probation officer.
Victim: 3yrs supervision of entire family by social worker & mandatory counselling to avoid the child being made a ward of court.
Scenario 2
Abuser: 3 months jail + 6yrs probation & mandatory counselling as above.
Victim: 2yrs supervision as above.
Scenario 3
Abuser: 10yrs jail + probation for life. Mandatory counselling throughout jail term & for at least 3yrs on release at discretion of probation officer. Immediate return to jail for breaking probation conditions such as frequenting places where teenagers congregate.
Victim: group & individual counselling for family for upto 3yrs if desired. No limit to counselling for victim. Financial support to access education in a manner that takes account of emotional damage.
Scenario 4
See Scenario 3.
Question 1
Blanket age of consent of 16.
Age 14 & 15 consent with a partner no more than 2yrs older.
Age 13 & below consent with a partner no more than 1yr older for non-penetrative sex only.
Question 2
In principal, yes. I'd say it depends more on the sexual development of the victim than anything else. That said, there's a danger of the sexist assumption that girls are "pure" whereas boys are "predators" creeping in.
Question 3
Not punishment since they cannot be expected to be legally responsible, but they should be made fully aware of the consequences of their actions & supervised to prevent re-occurance.
Question 4
Its a sliding scale rather than a fixed point of responsibility I think. After a sheltered upbringing, someone could be 25-30 before they really are responsible. A rough childhood forces responsibility on a young teen. Either way you've got to start somewhere & 16 is it imo


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 10:20 AM by KyoZero
reply to post by Bunken Drum



I posted part two of the survery for you guys. Your display of matrity is inspiring...thanks to all of you

-Kyo


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 10:38 AM by Bunken Drum
reply to post by KyoZero
Glad to be of assistance. Here's the link for Part 2 (makes it easier to find):
www.abovetopsecret.com...
Might be 2 good idea to edit it into your OP.
S&F btw


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 01:33 PM by metamagic
Originally posted by KyoZero

Question 1: If you had absolute power, what age of consent would you make the entire United States? No state laws will be enacted to change your ruling. Your final age will be the standard and law for the entire country. You may add any age gap laws If you choose to do so.

Abolish the whole idea of age of consent since it based on the ridiculous concept that turning a certain age suddenly allows moral judgements to be made. However, I would at the same time strictly enforce assault laws for everyone. Scenarios 3 and 4 are assault and battery, it makes no difference if sex involved. We have come to understand that in crimes like rape, they are not sexual act, they are acts of violence and power. Second of all, I would enforce strict anti-exploration laws that would prevent people in positions of trust, authority or power (including those that work with teens like teachers and coaches) from taking advantages of those who they have power over or are entrusted with. Unless it s consensual with both parties being able to freely give consent and understanding that consent, it is exploration. Both scenarios 1 and w might be exploitation, as would a boss demanding sex from and employee, a man seducing a dunk woman, or some one having sex with a 30 year old developmentally delayed person.

Question 2: Should a male and female convicted of the same crime (statutory rape) be treated the same in a court of law?

Under the existing laws, to do otherwise would be discrimination.

Question 3: Should any punishment be given to the victims of Scenario 1 or 2 since the victim was consensual in the act?

NO but some counselling is definitely in order.

Question 4: Does a minor (regardless of gender) have the true ability to understand the consequences of their actions before age 18?

Absolutely. they can, but there are also people who are in their 30s who do not understand, so to correlate age with this is ridiculous. I know several 16 year olds who by circumstances run their household (no parents) raising siblings, go to school and work to support their families. In times gone by, you were expected to be an adult at 12 or 13. Humanity has not devolved that much. Yet I also know middle aged women and men who act like 7 year olds.

As we get older we get wiser and smarter, but to draw an imaginary line at a particular time is not practical. For example, if I sleep with a 16 year old girl in West Virgina, it is an act of love, but in Virginia it is crime -- she can decide in West Virginia for herself but not in Virginia.


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 02:47 PM by KyoZero
reply to post by metamagic



As I said in the other thread in about 5 days I will return here with my answers and the findings so far

you will see a rather revealing difference between what ATS members think and what general public thinks. Not a massive difference but a difference nonetheless

-Kyo


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 03:07 PM by Unity_99
All the scenarios. Based on the older age of the adult, counciling and /or some jail time, perhaps 1-5 years. You did say willing, with no signs of coehersion. Gay is no different than heterosexual. (I edited to add the 1). I do think this is case to case, but those were older adults so this isn't falling for someone, but usary. Surprised that people don't understand, homosexuals know they are before they're 13 in most cases. There is no difference and the shocking differences people are giving really shows a lack of equality and respect for all people. People don't chose their sexual orientations.

If they were younger, say in their 20s, case to case basis, perhaps counciling and a bracelet. You did say, no signs of cohersion!

Half of the 13 year olds onwards are sexually active. I prefer freedom to anything like Sharia law. Freedom may mean errors of judgment, but I remember being young, and my friends dated older guys. They were even in love. Sometimes they even marry and divorce!

1. 14
2. yes
3. no. This is an adult, facist arbitrary decison over the head of the soveriegn teenager. If they are abused and cohersed of course they're a victim. But also, if not, they don't have to agree with me, or whomever is set up as a dictator. I actually raise my children to question all authority and don't believe in many laws except protection from murder and rape and form leaders, big business and banks. Ooops I forgot we don't have those.
4. yes, they do. They own their bodies and are usual sexual by 13-14 with them no matter what we think. And we don't own them. No reason for stigmas.


[edit on 17-2-2010 by Unity_99]

[edit on 18-2-2010 by Unity_99]


reply posted on 17-2-2010 @ 05:43 PM by DragonsDemesne
Scenario 1:

Abuser: 32 year old male
Victim: 13 year old female
Incident: 32 year old male is found guilty of statutory rape of a 13 year old minor female. There is no signs of forced or aggravated circumstances and the minor female did willingly commit the sexual act

13 is too young, particularly with a 32 year old. I'd also worry about the psychiatric health of the 32 year old that he even considers wanting to be with a kid in the first place. This guy needs help more than punishment, but I think he should still get a light sentence, a few years in jail, unless other factors were present, like the man being in a position of authority or influence (like a teacher, relative, religious leader, etc) in which case the penalty should be more severe.

Scenario 2:

Abuser: 38 year old female
Victim: 14 year old male
Incident: 38 year old female is found guilty of statutory rape of a 14 year old minor male. There is no signs of forced or aggravated circumstances and the minor male did willingly commit the sexual act

This is exactly the same as scenario 1 in terms of how I would treat it.

Scenario 3:

Abuser: 39 year old male
Victim: 14 year old male
Incident: 39 year old male is found guilty of statutory rape, aggravated sexual assault and rape of a 14 year old minor male. There are numerous signs of forced or aggravated circumstances to the minor male.

Lock the 39 year old up and throw away the key. This is inexcusable.

Scenario 4:

Abuser: 42 year old female
Victim: 14 year old female
Incident: 42 year old female is found guilty of statutory rape, aggravated sexual assault and rape of a 14 year old minor female. There are numerous signs of forced or aggravated circumstances to the minor female.

Same as scenario #3. I would also say the same if the abuser and victim were opposite genders.

Question 1: If you had absolute power, what age of consent would you make the entire United States? No state laws will be enacted to change your ruling. Your final age will be the standard and law for the entire country. You may add any age gap laws If you choose to do so.

I'm pretty happy with the law in Canada on this subject. If memory serves, anyone 18+ can consent to sex with anyone else 18+. There is also a 'close in age' provision (I think 2 or 3 years away) so that for instance a 17 year old and a 19 year old can legally have sex, but a 17 year old and a 25 year old cannot. 14 is the age of consent in all cases except the 'close in age' one, where a 12 or 13 year old can legally have sex with someone 'close in age'. I'm not at all happy with the state of our morals in society that people choose to have sex at such young ages, but in strictly legal terms, I think that the Canadian law is fairly good in this case.

Question 2: Should a male and female convicted of the same crime (statutory rape) be treated the same in a court of law?

Yes. I can't imagine why not; would you give one gender a lighter sentence for theft, fraud, murder, or any other crime? Probably not.

Question 3: Should any punishment be given to the victims of Scenario 1 or 2 since the victim was consensual in the act?

Yes, but it should be a significantly smaller punishment than if it was rape. Statutory only deserves maybe a few years in jail. Rape should carry one of the highest prison terms of any crime.

Question 4: Does a minor (regardless of gender) have the true ability to understand the consequences of their actions before age 18?

18 is just an arbitrary line we drew for legal reasons. Some people understand long before 18; some never will. 18 is a fairly reasonable age to use as a benchmark, though.
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