reply to post by rubyeyes
You've got three different issues here and since I have 4 kids, while certainly no expert, do have some experience.
Each child is different when it comes to sleeping on their stomachs. We back and side slept our kids until they were strong enough to sleep on their
stomachs. All of my kids slept much better on their stomachs. There ability to do that has to do with strength. Giving the kid a lot of time on
his belly in play time will muscle him/her and get them more confident and able to stomach sleep.
I can't imagine how autisim can be related to sleeping habits, but I'm certainly not qualified to make a judgement. Personally I think its
vaccines.
The flat head deal is primarily due to neglected babys. Not exclusively, but it is not due to sleeping. It is due to having the child on his back
or in a child seat/car seat for very long periods of time repeatedly. If you leave an infant in a crib or in a seat where their head is resting
against a hard surface all day, his head is going to flatten. IMO, leaving your baby in a position like that for extended is neglect.