reply to post by calstorm
Like I said, I grew up in foster care too. I know it is imperfect, and it needs reform badly.
If the best interests of children were the concern, there would be some screening, licensing, and training done BEFORE people were allowed to go make
babies. Thats what I would prefer, so that children arent even born into homes with incompetent parents. But, parents rights always take precedence
over child welfare, and God knows that would have everyone screaming about their rights, while the status quo has children bring beaten, neglected,
bounced around, and psychologically tortured.
I know, let the flames begin. God forbid you should have to be qualified to raise a human being.
Edit to add;
My brother, who didnt get removed from our home, killed himself. I am fine. Although every situation is different, I think it is absolutely wrong
not to pull children from the home when there is psychological abuse going on.
I also had a foster brother kill himself at 12 shortly after being RETURNED to his own parents, because he couldnt take it anymore.
Maybe your own mother wasnt as bad as some, because I know many people who were better off in the hell of foster care than at home.
[edit on 22-1-2010 by Illusionsaregrander]