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Originally posted by randyvs
The fun part for me is gonna be telling her other Mother that her real mother has
called. I was already getting dirty looks at Christmas time for setting this up.
My wife says Thank you
It is always great when families can get back in touch after so many years.
She's not her mother by a long shot. She is just the woman who abandoned her. She should be little better than any other stranger
lol it isnt all that bad.
Hopefully you wont stir things up too badly. I'm sure you've made some enemies LOL, but the adopted mother in law probably didn't like you anyway
I think that you are a very wonderful person for doing this for your wife. You are totally on this and that is real love.
Let the chip's fall where they may ! And I know it's family your dealing with but brush off any negativity they might possibly try to send your way.
This is a very healing situation for your wife she is lucky she can have some closure with her past meeting the present. Peace
All the best to your wife.
reply to post by Blackmarketeer
She should meet with her birth mother, maybe some fences can be mended, but with a gentle reminder who her real mother is, is the one that nursed her and raised her in a loving home.