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You and your family will always have an unbound connection, bringing your thoughts closer and closer towards theirs as time goes by. The comfort you recieved from them is now gone, and is missed.
My advice is to give the family what ever they want. make them as happy as you possibly can. weather it be admitting you were wrong, when you were right, or giving something they desired, and their ego split you apart.
To fight over something with family is pointless, what ever you own your family should be just as welcome to.
To say you do not need family is empty. Some have none, so dealing with it is much much easier. some have a lot, but being split from them is very hard. Ask anyone.
If you desire your families love, then you must fulfill their desires. When it comes down to it, its your families happiness that makes you happy. not having them far away.
Originally posted by gandhi
To put it simple, the only reason someone would not like their family is because of their egoistic needs. someones family not liking them is for the same reason. thats all drama is about, ego.
Originally posted by gandhi
So if we just tried to make everyone but ourselves happy, we create a new need. and we get rid of the ego while doing so.
Originally posted by gandhi
Its something at first glance seems totally stupid in the egos perspective, but once done, opens the Self.