Okay I'm not trying to badger you here, but I do know what I'm talking about. Feel free to tell me to take a leap, however. It won't hurt my
Originally posted by Frontkjemper
As I said, if her response is warm, I'll let her know who I am. If it's cold, I'll tell her I'm sorry for wasting her time.
You're on the road to a self-fulfilling prophecy. She won't be rejecting, or acting coldly to you
, but to an anonymous whatever that could
be from any sicko. Bold
, man, I can't emphasize it enough. Even if you aren't. If this is something worth pursuing, go all-in.
One thing I should also mention is that my self esteem isn't that great.
That's valuable info. Listen to me here, this is important. IT DOESN'T MATTER, unless you let it matter. Act as though you're confident and
ultimately YOU WILL BE. Sorry for the all caps, but you need to know this and believe it.
Fortune favors the bold. You can't steal second with a foot on first. And other sports euphemisms (which are all true, by the way, like you won't
score 100% of the time you don't take a shot).
She's going to judge you, hell yes she is, and your best chance is to come across as a confident and bold man. Not a
Fact: The more confidently you act, the more confident you will become. Is it easy? No, if it was there wouldn't be so many losers. All it takes
is the will and determination. Nothing worthwhile is easy, but it's more than doable. And if I thought you were a crappy guy, I wouldn't waste my
It's up to you, Just Do It.