posted on Dec, 8 2009 @ 08:49 PM
total honesty here...i just skimmed your OP, and pressed the reply button...but here is what i have to say on this in general.
im 22...i am JUST NOW getting my head on straight. i dated a girl a few months back who was 24 and just getting her head on.
just because you are reaching a societal check point, doesn't mean you have to.
go at your pace...but at the same time, always keep it a constant thought that you are supposed to be growing and maturing and becoming a better
and sadly...if you want to live the "normal" life, you will have to work..or live to work..or whatever...the only saving grace you can have there is
make sure you LOVE what you do for a living. it doesnt even have to be the whole thing...because no job is 100% joyful, but you know what i mean
main point: just roll with the punches. it will come to you.
edit to add: if you know you are slacking in the school department, just buck up and be a better student. yea..it aint as cool, its not as fun, but if
you want that degree you gotta do it..again..something i wish someone wouldve told me 3 years ago...now im sitting here trying to make money come out
my ass so i can start school again. learn from others mistakes.
[edit on 12/8/2009 by iamsupermanv2]