posted on Nov, 27 2009 @ 05:18 PM
This is by way of a follow on to my previous post, I felt it necessary to offer a description of what a negative entity is and how they operate.
Hope this is of benefit to others in some way, I also post this as my interpretation of negatives and how they appear to myself, it may not be others.
How to spot a Negative Person or the new name fo them MEMEs
There are many ways.
One I have found that is almost spot on is contradict someones boasts or claims, ask them to support what theyre claiming with something substantial,
dont do so in a confrontational manner, because that then renders you negative. Politely ask them how they reached whatever conclusion theyre claiming
to have reached. or just disagree wth what theyre saying, they soon expose their true colours whan you do this.
A positive person can accept anothers view point, knowing that we each have our own way of interpreting things and our own perceptions of reality,
therefore we are able to question our selves and the outcome of choices made, whilst at the same time accepting that anothers opinion is just as valid
to them as say mine is to me, positive persons accept responsibility in all areas, positives are also more than happy to offer an explanation for how
they reached the conclusion made, whereas many negatives are feigning being positive so have no idea how to respond when asked to offer an explanation
for something they may have done, or why they are claiming to be right whilst declaring your opinion to being wrong.
Positives can and do accept they are wrong,if and when they are, and will accept they make mistakes. not many negatives can do this. A positive person
will genuinely apologise and atone for their misdeeds. Not so a negative, theyre never wrong so how can they accept theyre accountable. even when
theyre faced with a gross error or wrong doing they will try all ways to get out of it blame it on someone or something. or give excuses for how it
wasnt their fault, they didnt mean it, they didnt realise, it was the weather bad hair day, PMS, or something external to themselves.
Ways of spotting a negative -
the easy way for now is tell a person theyre wrong and watch their reaction and check it against whats here.
Heres a prime example of a negative person.
Earlier this year I became associated with a person, and formed a kind of rapport, however one day for no known reason ( I still dont really know what
was behind it ) this person, stopped having anything to do with myself, an approach was made to try finding out what was behind it all, all efforts
were ignored, ok I could deal with that, I was a little confused as to the cause but accepted the situation, when I was asked about it by others I
The other person however wasnt content with just severing ties this person then started a campaign to discredit me and anything I did, eventually the
person made themselves look small and petty by their doing as they did, such was that persons level of negativity. in order to try to get at myself,
their anger or hostility towards me took away their ability to see reason.
My name was blackened to this persons associates,(and anyone else who listened), mass emails were sent out to many, informing them of my being of
dubious character, I was condemned and convicted I was not once informed of what I stood accused of or asked to offer an explanation or anything of
the kind, or if the allegations against me were true or not, that to me is typical of a negative orientated person, they think they have the right to
play god, to approach me and ask if their doing as they did was founded, didnt enter their heads, I was guilty and they were the jailer in their
Had I been confronted with whatever it is/was I stood accused of I would have responded to the best of my ability, with as honest a reply as possible.
I would have also held the person in high esteem for having the manners and character to confront me head on, I c