Originally posted by moocowman
reply to post by shamhat
This is applicable to most higher mammals. We don't select our mates along those lines anymore, but taking the examples of lions and apes perhaps, it is the skill in the fight and general stamina, that ensures receptive females. And age of course.
I'm curious,(serious and polite Mods note) why is it do you think really gorgeous women hang in with ugly looking blokes, I seem to see quite a few of them about.
I sometimes wonder, "what the hell does she see in lardman there ?" (no offence I'm no stick insect) women seem to be some dorkey choices leaving one baffled and concluding the dude must be hung like a baboon can be the only explanation.
You need to learn the timeless art of seduction, looks means squat when it really comes down to it. Women are more turned on by the other senses than looks.
I myself am an average looking guy, but I wouldn't be getting with any women if I didn't know which buttons to press.
I try to uphold an aura of mystery and romance, never fails to intrigue women.. though, I probably am mysterious, what with all my secrets and all the weirdness I have going on.
Also, some woman just love "deep" and sensitive guys, and this is your lucky day because being "deep" in this day and age is not that hard, seeing as people are just shallow copies of one another.
You have to be hard to define, get in their head and stay there, make them ponder what you really want, give mixed signals.
Tease them and love them.. keep them wondering.
Cause once you're in their head and they're trying to "figure you out", you've already won(well, both of you have won).
Women overthink and overanalyze their feelings, use that.
I realize that I sound like a cold calculating manipulator, but I don't agree.
This is the game, the dance, the chase.
You have to play these silly games, it's the mating dance, with it's own rules and boundaries.
"What is a bad boy? He's a rebel without a cause, a cool dude in a motorcycle jacket, a real life Huckleberry Finn who wants to take you on a wild river ride to adventure.
He's wounded, moody, misunderstood, a dreamer, a seducer, a daredevil.
He is a man of mystery and a fascinating paradox. He's both a lost little boy and a man with a dark side. He breaks your heart with his wicked ways, but whether he's a wanton wolf or a dangerous desperado, he makes you long to rescue him from his pain.
He's hurtful cruel, or simply careless and self-absorbed, but you can't resist jumping on his motorcycle and roaring off into the steamy night with him.
And once you've given him your heart forever... he's gone with the wind!
He's someone who sets off throbbing and aggressive passions within you.
Because he's aloof and elusive, you get caught up in the challenge and excitement of the chase-though he's not always someone you'd want even if you did capture him.
A bad boy may tell you he's generally right.
He's a frog you hope to turn into a fairy-tale with the magic of your kiss..."
You must have heard about the "seduction community" by now?
I personally find it a little cheesy and dorky(canned lines and "peacocking") but the concepts and things they're talking about is really accurate.
After reading through a bit of seduction material I now understand attraction and seduction much better.
Before, I could get girls.. but I would never know why or how really, now I know what works, and what doesn't.
Oh, just realized I just wrote a wall of text.. that is pretty much off topic..
Sorry mods, I will take my chances and post it though, too much time went into it to delete it!
I wish you lived near me 
girls love that look where I am. 
