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Thats so true, I am like you im not a hoarder but i have my share of junk, and i had a friend house sit for me while on vacation, and he thought he would do me a favor and go thru paperwork and whatever else and throw things out, I was livid so yes i get that ..
I just can't help thinking how I'd feel if someone came into my home and started to try and persuade me to get rid of things that they couldn't see the value of. How could an outsider make decisions about what I should keep and what was expendable?
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What are the ages of her kids?
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What does Son in Navy say about the hoarding?
...another thing is like when doing laundry it takes her hours to do maybe 4 loads , she methodically looks at every garment and shakes it out and lets the washer fill exactly half way and then adds soap, she does this at laundramat. she takes all this time wirh them and then they never make it out of the baskets or bags once home...
...You know her house is not flithy her kitchen and bath always very clean, like appliances and sink and stuff clean linens and towells. dishes done but , clutter stacks of stuff on floor dining table . cupbards are full. but strangely enough it is somewhat organized i suppose...
Sorry . . . sort of . . . to disagree.
the friend is well over the line. There IS a clinical problem that requires serious intervention before it gets horrifically worse.
The symptoms are many and quite clear.
However, as much as I like being a bird of rare plumage myself . . . and as much as I like folks enjoying a maximum amount of freedom, free will and their own . . . constructions on reality . . .