Someone said to me today, well at least she can live her life now. The lady has no face, I'm pretty sure she doesn't even have hands anymore. She cant even see, I can't even bear to watch her interview with Oprah.

I would take death over this any day. I am just curious, are there any of you out here that would rather live and be in this condition?

I would hold on to life.

I only hope she can find a deeper meaning to her life !

All life is sacred ! If she can transcend this tragedy she can gain a deeper appreciation for her life.

I find it sad to hear from such vain souls who would just "give up" !

I decided a long time ago I lose either my sight or hearing its check out time from life. I really don't understand how she seemed at times almost cheerful during her oprah interview.

[edit on 11/12/2009 by Soulhacking]

Hm Interesting question actually, and I can't think of any reason why I would commit suicide, not even if I was in her place. Nothing happens without a reason or a deeper meaning, that's how I think. People commit suicide for all kinds of stupid reasons, loosing a girl/boyfriend, having an accident that changes ones appearance, war, love, whatever.....

Ultimately everything that happens to us, good or bad, is an important life lesson.

[edit on 12-11-2009 by Clairaudience]

...i probably wouldve died since i dont have insurance - but - if it had happened to me and i was given a choice, i'd choose to live because its a recoverable condition - not like it's a cancer thats gonna kill ya anyways... who i am is my mind, not my physical appearance...

Well she isnt even fully aware how much of her face has been damaged is she? In the interview she said she only found out a couple of weeks ago that she had no eyes, so she must be in the mindset of that being ignorant is better then knowing how bad it is.

Id like to think I wouldnt just top myself if that happened to me... because I mean losing your sight is pretty bad on its own (worse than losing your hearing I think), and losing both your hands is bad as well... I think Id probably be able to deal with either of those on their own, but both together I dont know how I'd cope. Also, I think if Id lost my eyes I wouldnt give a toss what my face looked like because its not like Id be able to see it anyway!

I suppose as well it depends on how old you are. That woman is in her late 50's right? And not saying that she has nothing left in her life to do.. but at least she's been able to experience being 'normal' for the last 50 odd years of her life. I think if a person was significantly younger than that it would be alot harder to deal with.

[edit on 12/11/09 by Bluebelle]

anyone saying they would want to live is a fool. the only reason she probably hasnt done "it" is out of fear. i would gladly let myself go to the other side and move on with life there. there is no future hope for getting back what is lost through our science, and what is she to live for, to go on tv shows and tell her story. forget that. if my life as i know it got flipped by to something of her degree. i would be done. maybe she can go meditate in a cave for years and become a spiritual guru or something, but everything else is done. there are things i could cope with if i lost, but she has lost a lot. i actually havent watched any of the stuff because i cant bare to look at her. its sad.

Originally posted by jimmy1200
anyone saying they would want to live is a fool. the only reason she probably hasnt done "it" is out of fear. i would gladly let myself go to the other side and move on with life there. there is no future hope for getting back what is lost through our science, and what is she to live for, to go on tv shows and tell her story. forget that. if my life as i know it got flipped by to something of her degree. i would be done. maybe she can go meditate in a cave for years and become a spiritual guru or something, but everything else is done. there are things i could cope with if i lost, but she has lost a lot. i actually havent watched any of the stuff because i cant bare to look at her. its sad.

So those who would choose to live on are fools??

I disagree. YOU may give up when life becomes hard (and that is your right, I feel), but not me..and not her. You say it is fear that keeps her from killing herself, I say it is strength. It appears that she is even stronger than you.

To cut and run is infinitely easier than staying the course and making the best of what life you have. This woman has a daughter, a family, and a life. Which of those things have been taken away since the attack? Not one. For a lot of "fools" those are more than enough reasons to keep living.

I honestly hope that you find something truly important in life that changes your perspective. Just my opinion, but if your only joy in life comes through your hands and eyes, I feel bad for you. Everyone should have at least one true happiness in life that cannot be shaken even in the worst of times. Hands and eyes do not a life make. Nor are those who choose to enjoy the world with whatever remaining senses they have left are fools.

Hard to say really, but sitting here now i'd say i'd rather not live my life like that.

However i am also thinking that someone in that position could do a lot to educate people about the dangers of these animals, or at least why they shouldn't be kept as pets.

She may not want to do that, i don't know, and i certainly wouldn't blame her for wanting to not go down that road.

Just to add, the video of her revealing the full damage on Oprah is on Youtube. Not nice viewing, but inspirational that she is quite happy to carry on.

CX.

Please don't underestimate the abilities of the brain. A person who might have lost sight has heightened hearing senses, can actually picture the world through acoustic means, a deaf person can actually "hear" by sensing vibrations in the environment. There was a guitarist who could play better than any person with just two fingers (I can't remember his name).... get the point? Its all about perception and how you deal with it.

But its not those reasons that lead people to commit suicide, its the lack of social commitment due to whatever reasons, its the reactions of other people on the street that make you psychologically "unstable".

She has a daughter she spends time with who has NOT seen her face.
Good enough reason to me for trying to have some sort of life.
I suspect no amount of reconstructive surgery will make her "whole" again but you know,I had someone very close to me who lost a great deal of their face including an eye to cancer and they went on to live another 10 years that "mattered."
Yes,I would want to keep living.

Originally posted by Spiramirabilis

exactly

so - what is it about life that makes it worth living?

Well Id assume things like friends, family & doing things that make you happy make living worthwhile. And while Id assume that family would stick around if something like that happened, the person would probably lose a lot of friends. And as for being able to do things you enjoy... well if those things were based around using your hands & eyesight then its understandable that someone would see little point to their life if they were no longer able to do them.