*SNIP* I wrote over 5 pages of thoughts in 30 minutes and condensed it to two pages th...Im curious as to whether it seems logical.
Establishing yourself with another person, it’s the most basic things us as humans do, but it can be the hardest. Everything you think of anyone you
know comes from two things: What you have said to them, and what others have said about you to them. The side we choose to show to them, is the basic
opinion they have of us, so if you are nice to them…they will generally see you as a nice person. When talking to someone, the only way to connect
with them is to try to become them, they should be your world for that small moment in time. Our biggest fear is our own self doubt of what we think
people think of us, or what they will think of us if we say something they don’t want to hear. . I say this in the most repetitive form, when
talking to a person, become that person and search to learn everything about them. And when you learn more about them, a part of you they become. We
are caught in the worlds of sobriety, and all sobriety brings is doubt. Everyone wants to tell their side of the story, so when you are there to
listen, they form a special bond with you that can only grow.
So approaching a person should never be a hard thing, as it seems to be for so many people. You have to block out what others will think of you, and
what you think that person thinks of you and then go and try to talk to and become that person. Because in reality, no one really does not like you,
unless they have a direct reason to. If someone ignores you, its generally because they are intimidated to start a conversation with you, because they
don’t know what to say…we have all went through that. We are just one person, and to become a bigger person we must learn. The only way to learn
is to become closer with people and learn more about them…because every person is different, every word has a different meaning to a different
person. In short, whatever you think a person think about you is what they do think about you…because you can never know what they truly think about
you. You learn one emotion out of a million when talking to someone, and the one person out of 6 billion there are is just one piece of knowledge
about our world. All the world is, is a collection of thoughts from all people….and not one person can hold all of that information, but we can do
our best to try. From others emotions and experiences, you can only add to your own. As you struggle to break the constraints of what you think a
person thinks about you, then you can have less self doubt, and less self doubt leads to a less paranoid life. No opinion is ever set on you by any
one person ever, that opinion is always set to change and grow as you change and grow with it.
The bottom line is karma is a bitch, but it’s the truest thing about this world. If you are nice to everyone, you kill two birds with one
stone...because you are nice to your face, and the ones who talk about you will also think your nice, so there is nothing bad that can ever be said of
you. As soon as people realize that, the happier the world will be. As soon as you say something bad about someone, or make fun of someone, is as soon
as it will bite you in the ass. If you are nice to someone in person, but make fun of them behind their back then you look two-faced. And if you
ignore them in real life, and they hear bad things about you, then you’re a creep. It’s remembering simple things like that, that change your
1. If you see someone not conversating with anyone, go and talk to them….no one in this world is weird, we just all have different needs and
different ways of showing it…we all have the same basic emotions.
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