reply to post by total_slacker
Well, at least you took the time to think.
...and must say that indeed the removal of any special legal status for marriage is the most effective and complete way to ensure that all
people have "equal rights" in regards to marriage.
That is the entire point.
The POINT of government is clearly written in the constitution... and if we start granting the Federal government more and more powers... then...
well, lets see...
The size of government will bloat.
The overall cost of maintaining government will increase.
The hubris of our elected officials will rise.
The economy will be siphoned of all of its resources by the increased size of the governemnt...
etc
etc
etc
This is one of the main problems that I have with this "Gay Marradge Debate"
People keep thinking that this all just happens in a vacuum.
IT doesn't, It has VERY CLEAR logistic, economic, political, and Authoritarian consequences and effects tied to it.
You dont give people more freedom by expanding the powers of government to give out more benefits... that is how tyranny begins, and freedom ends.
And if you are battling FOR Equality, then MORE government power is what you should be battling AGAINST.
That is somewhat of a radical step though, don't you think?
If it's not easy, it must be bad, huh?
Humanity follows the path of least resistance..... failing to see that correct action often comes at the price of hardship or discomfort.
sometimes doing what is right, is doing what is hard.
The legal ramifications of throwing out and reshaping all the inheritance, divorce, and tax laws alone would be enough to keep the various and
sundry legislative bodies of the country busy for the next couple of centuries.
With dedicated effort, that kind of thing could be changed in a month.
Our government is inefficient because their "Path" is NOT in our best interest.
IT looks like bloated inefficiency to us, but to them, it is all about consolidating power.
Your argument that marriage imports a special status on those lucky enough to be eligible for it is correct. Since this is true - is it so
terrible then to expand the pool of citizens who are entitled to participate in this institution, with all the benefits and privileges it
provides?
Do you really want your government handing out freebies?
Someone still has to pay for all of that.
Why should *I* pay, if I (Or a vast portion of the country) "By Definition" are not qualified to partake of these benefits?
is this not tyranny of the majority over the minority?
You keep saying that this or that social benefit (e.g. adoption) isn't a "right".
It's not... children are not commodities.
You do not have a right to adopt them.
You are not entitled to possession of them, unless you are their parents, or kin.
Any other form of stuardship over a child springs from societal agreement that you are the best person for the job.
You can't just "DEMAND" to have some random kid.
Equal protection under the law IS a right though and this is the situation that gay marriage proponents are trying to ensure.
Straight couples do not have the Right to adoptions either.
They must go through consideration... it's not just something that you demand.
Claiming that some form of civil union is just as good as marriage is automatically claiming that it isn't marriage, and is therefore
inherently unequal.
Here is the thing that you are failing to recognize...
Marridge is not a right, as a legal institution.
The government CANNOT prevent you from loving, living with, being faithful to, etc, someone else...
The government does not have to "Sanction" it.
And why you would WANT that sanction, I have no idea.
YES, some parts of government have been designed to aid those who are "Legally Recognized" as "Married Couples" with benefits and whatnot....
But that is completely unconstitutional, and antithesis to the very nature of a JUST and FREE society, and Equitable Government.
THAT is what bugs me.... Homosexuals are NOT fighting for Equal rights.
They are FIGHTING for BENEFITS that are still denied to most Americans.
They don't really want equality, they want privilege.
What part of your world comes crashing down if some justice of the peace somewhere pronounces someone "man and husband"?
Presuming that I am Homophobic, or "Anti-Gay" is not helping your argument.
Try harder next time.
-Edrick