reply to post by ProtoplasmicTraveler
I haven't seen Mad Max or The Godfather. I couldn't escape when Dirty Harry was on TV recently, though. I stuck my head into the computer and
pretended it wasn't happening
I don't like violent movies or computer games. I don't mind pretend violence like Buffy or Babylon 5. And I love boxing.
That's the point, really. I don't like having to even be in the same room with a truly violent movie, but I would consider the execution of a
criminal. I've even suggested castration as a fitting punishment.
I know someone who was in prison for a couple of years, long ago, and he worked in the kitchens while he was there. He told me that other prisoners
would do filthy things to the food of sex offenders to the point that he started to feel sorry for them.
Even knowing what they'd done he couldn't bear seeing them not being able to eat their food. When he told me, I felt sorry for them too. And yet, if
I was put in a room with one and invited to kick the living daylights out of them, I could probably do it.
I dunno - I suppose I don't like to think of people being tortured day in and day out in petty ways, but I do agree that they should be punished.
Appropriately punished is what I mean. Somehow a good kicking seemed to fit the bill, as long as they could have a decent meal afterwards
I did note that you are about the only person who has said that they would take a share of the blame if their child had been left unguarded long
enough to fall victim to a predator or a bully.
I think that's extremely commendable. If only my parent had had a similar outlook.
She used to leave my brother and me with a male teenaged babysitter who used to torment us. Until one evening I left the house (in my pyjamas) and
knocked on a neighbour's door, standing on their doorstep crying and begging for help.
I don't know why we never told our mother what had been happening. Possibly we feared that she would be cross with us because it would ruin her
future nights out if she couldn't find someone to 'look after' us. Ironically, we were really good little kids and could have been left alone
without ever getting ourselves into any mischief, and we'd have been a lot safer.
I'm including that little story as a cautionary tale for any parents reading this. It isn't great to place your trust in other people to look after
your kids and if your child is being abused or bullied they will have many reasons not to tell you. Kids will try and take a lot on their shoulders
to try and 'protect' a parent.
Karma? I'm doing my best not to incur too much bad karma. It's a strange thing, you try to live in such a way that you don't hurt any living
creature, but there's always that thought, is it enough? Should I be doing more than just trying not to add to the problems of the world?