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Personally i think alot of straight males, do not like the fact that absolute gay males, do not like female private parts. I really think thats the most important reason why straight males just do not like the idea of gays.
Originally posted by andy1033
I am on another board ta the mo, and you get the usual, gays are disgusting in threads. I wonder what is it about gays that really trouble straight males?
Is it
1) The idea that males, do not like female private parts?
2) The idea that males may fancy them in some way?
3) The insecurities in side themselves to protect there hetero feelings?
Personally i think alot of straight males, do not like the fact that absolute gay males, do not like female private parts. I really think thats the most important reason why straight males just do not like the idea of gays.
Alot of gays would find the idea of straight sex disgusting but no one ever says it, we just hear that gay sex is wrong, and disgusting. Looks like the majority runs the show, yeppy.
What do you guys think, about this, and whats the real, reason why you people think straight males hate gay males so much? Personally i think its no1, but of course there are lots of bi males, who can have sex with both males and females, but i am talking about all out gay males.
[edit on 10/28/2009 by andy1033]
Originally posted by getreadyalreadyActually I know several gay men that I think are great, but I also know many "flaming gay" men that I would like to run over.
Originally posted by intrepid
It boils down to "ignorance". Not knowing. I was homophobic early in life due to being raised in a military family. I got to know gay men later in life. They were the same, not really, they were more understanding than straights. Probably because of what they had to endure.
Originally posted by thisguyrighthereBut I dont encounter any of that stuff anymore. In the middle of nowhere with no neighbors. The way life should be. There really isnt anything more annoying or anything that can ruin a nice day quite like other people.
Originally posted by WatchRiderWhat I'm basically saying is the whole gay thing is being pushed as an agenda, you make a lot of young kids growing up start thinking 'Hey I might be gay'.
Originally posted by FlightyI know a lot of men who aren't concerned about homosexual men in places like the workplace and as acquaintances. But when it comes to buddies and best mates, I don't know one who's best friend is a homosexual.
Probably because of the reasons above. Or maybe not.
Just my thoughts.
Originally posted by andy1033
Everyone is different and all these stereotypes do no one any favours.
Just glad the way i am, and one great thing is i will never bringing anyone into this horror society unlike all you so called great straight humans, who like to commit all your crimes.
Originally posted by andy1033
reply to post by HankMcCoy
lol, have you ever heard of sarcasm. Internet talk is not all 100% meant to be taken as gospel from the hands they are typed from.
I am just sick of stererotypes being made against gay people, to ridicule them. I just want people to understand truths from my perspective, and my experience of life, that has seen the extreme of human hatred, just because i did not like or want what they want.
Originally posted by HankMcCoy
"Let's end this steady stream of ignorance on both sides.
The only difference.. read this carefully now.. the ONLY difference between homosexual and heterosexual men is this.
Homosexual men are sexually aroused by penises.
Heterosexual men are not sexually aroused by penises.
That's it.
Anything else that comes into play as an argument for or against is ignorance, bigotry, stereotyping, profiling, and whatever else you wish to throw in."
I cannot agree with this statement. Maybe some men are into penises as a fixation. Homo/Hetero are actually default constructions, because on each "side" one will find countless varions on fetishes, tastes and fixations. For me it is a beautiful, rugged male face, and a great penis (whatever that means, long, thick, cut, uncut, pierced, erect/flaccid, black/white?) on an ugly face will just be a turn-off. Both my straight female friends and I agree on which guys are hot, and we just see the faces. However, gay male brains are still "male" brains, and we do respond more to visual stimulus than women. For me the whole male physique is just different, and a nice back-shot is also great. But sexuality is actually very personalized, despite our political necessity of creating a binary in sexuality.
What I do sometime wonder: I've seen female-to-male sex changes and these guys are often rugged and gorgeous. However, although I've never been confronted with this personally, but when I hear they were once straight physical "women" I get a bit turned-off. I want another male who has always had the experiences of being male - so I want the same gender in so many ways. But who knows, love is love, and when one falls for a person little else matters in any case?
Originally posted by halfoldman
Originally posted by HankMcCoy
"Let's end this steady stream of ignorance on both sides.
The only difference.. read this carefully now.. the ONLY difference between homosexual and heterosexual men is this.
Homosexual men are sexually aroused by penises.
Heterosexual men are not sexually aroused by penises.
That's it.
Anything else that comes into play as an argument for or against is ignorance, bigotry, stereotyping, profiling, and whatever else you wish to throw in."
I cannot agree with this statement. Maybe some men are into penises as a fixation. Homo/Hetero are actually default constructions, because on each "side" one will find countless varions on fetishes, tastes and fixations. For me it is a beautiful, rugged male face, and a great penis (whatever that means, long, thick, cut, uncut, pierced, erect/flaccid, black/white?) on an ugly face will just be a turn-off. Both my straight female friends and I agree on which guys are hot, and we just see the faces. However, gay male brains are still "male" brains, and we do respond more to visual stimulus than women. For me the whole male physique is just different, and a nice back-shot is also great. But sexuality is actually very personalized, despite our political necessity of creating a binary in sexuality.
What I do sometime wonder: I've seen female-to-male sex changes and these guys are often rugged and gorgeous. However, although I've never been confronted with this personally, but when I hear they were once straight physical "women" I get a bit turned-off. I want another male who has always had the experiences of being male - so I want the same gender in so many ways. But who knows, love is love, and when one falls for a person little else matters in any case?
Regardless of whether or not you agree with my statement, it's a statement of fact. Nothing you have said refutes my original point.
I am on another board ta the mo, and you get the usual, gays are disgusting in threads. I wonder what is it about gays that really trouble straight males?
Is it
1) The idea that males, do not like female private parts?
2) The idea that males may fancy them in some way?
3) The insecurities in side themselves to protect there hetero feelings?