Originally posted by reasonable
The US is divided beyond repair. I firmly believe the country should divide into two separate countries a right leaning and a left leaning.
I actually disagree that separation is the answer.

Live and let live is the answer. Learning to agree to disagree is the answer. Keeping our
beliefs for ourselves and not imposing them on other people is the answer.
As kosmo illustrated:
One person's "murdering unborn children" is another's
freedom of choice.
One person's "raping and pillaging the traditional nuclear family" is another's
freedom to have the kind of family one chooses.
One person's "feminization of men and the masculinization of women" is another's
gender equality.
One person's "denigrating the foundation of marriage" is another's
freedom to marry one's choice.
One person's "handouts to people who are uninterested in providing for themselves" is another person's
charity and love for our fellow
man.
And so on.
It seems some people want freedom, as long as they get to choose the particular freedoms for everyone...
My point is, I accept that kosmo feels this way about the freedoms and equality that I support. As long as he/she doesn't impose his own personal
restrictions on
my freedoms, I don't have a problem with him feeling the way he does. But that's what he wants to do. He wants to take away
my freedoms. He would legally remove every freedom he mentioned above if he had the power, and that's what I find dangerous about the more
traditional side of the divide.
If kosmo could learn to LIVE AND LET LIVE, he would find that other people's freedoms don't affect his life. A gay couple down the street getting
married won't in any way affect his marriage, yet he would disallow the gay couple the same rights he has. This is not personal responsibility. It's
dictatorship, control, rule by one set of people to another.
Why people can't just back off of having control over everything and everyone, I don't understand. We have lived in this society together for many
years. What's going on now that we feel we must rule the way other people live? That's the problem with this divide...