Originally posted by LiveForever8
reply to post by XXXN3O
Yes, i understand what you are saying, i think.
I can see your point. But if my sons role model was Einstein, Newton, Mozart, etc, etc, who am i to say 'actually son, i wouldn't bother, you
probably won't be as good as them'
Now, i agree with you that the potential for failure to emulate their successes is huge, but that shouldn't stop them trying. There would be no
progress at all.
What i see the problem being is the complete opposite. People aiming so low just so they can say 'i did it!'
When young girls role models are Paris Hilton and boys role models insanely rich 'musicians', i ask myself......who's reaching for the stars these
days?
Peace.
If you are a young person, looking around for inspiration is something that I dont think limits anyone as it gives people a sense of what they want to
do in life.
However if you are an adult and still looking at the same person it can become a benchmark and that is when I think it limits potential and it can
have just as bad an effect if you beat your benchmark. In other words I believe theres a certain time that you have to let go if you get me or you
will never be yourself.
Your spot on with some of the role models ie Paris Hilton and so on. What raises my eyebrows however is that a lot of young kids do not know any
better when it comes to setting sights.
I mean, I know a certain person who said to me not long ago that what they wanted to do in life was use their looks to get them a footballer or famous
person who would give them all their money.
I mean im not saying have unbelieveable ambitions but more, whats wrong with being yourself in life and using your own abilities to get you on in
life?
Ever heard of a person who looks at lets say a famous musician and says, I want to be a rockstar just like them, they get to the top of the game and
get all the cash and adoration of fans etc. One year down the line they are full of drugs, constantly in and out of rehab and completely lost when it
comes to a sense of direction. I am not talking just about limits that can cause failure but also limits that you might be able to overcome easily if
you did not constantly focus on the person you want to be like. If you dont have your own plans then your going to hit a dead end.
I guess to say that in a nutshell, dont make your life about someone elses.
Hope that makes sense.
[edit on 22-10-2009 by XXXN3O]