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Originally posted by andy1033
reply to post by nixie_nox
No one on earth has the right to tell me or others they have tyo trust people. Plenty of people throughout history have lived there lifes with no one in there company.
It bull that because you do not want to trust someone, it will make you razy etc...
Look at all the so called sane people, commiting crimes wanting to wreck others lifes etc..., and you call people just wanting to live out there life crazy just for wanting to be alone.
Maybe there is good reason why that person wants to be alone from all people other than his her family.
Originally posted by nixie_nox
reply to post by deathpoet69
You think crazy people know they are crazy? *laughs* I am surrounded by mentally ill. They don't always know they are acting crazy. I mean that seriously as I am their caretakers.
Also, people make mistakes, they do stupid things. Good friends learn to forgive, and forgive again. But to walk around shutting yourself off wallowing in teenage angst is creating a condition.
It is you who you have to live with at the end of the day. It is you who will be judged when life ends. it is you who has to live with remorse, happiness or guilt. You are responsible for YOUR decisions. You have to live with them.
To decide that all others are not worthy of trust is patronizing. And limiting. And you are deciding who they are are, when the only person who you have to deal with is you.
If they make bad desicions, so be it. It is not for you or me to judge.
They have to live with themselves. they have to sleep with it at night.
they have be judged for it.
If you do the right things,then that is what you live with.
But to go around saying trust no one, is an excuse to be an isolationist. To be a social recluse, and to put the blame on others where there is none. You set the standards high so you can be disappointed, and go SEE! that is why I must be alone. It is all their fault. Now I don't have to be responsible for anything.
Originally posted by deathpoet69
it is not a crime to be alone and not wanting to trust anyone, for someone to have friends is weak and unable to be responsible for his/her self, you are more likly to survive by been alone.