Originally posted by dizziedame
As a member of ATS I do appreciate your concern for the site.
But I do not appreciate your tone. Nor do I appreciate a lecture from you.
That is a moderators job and not yours.
I do forgive you for writing to us as if we were 11 years old. I honestly think you would be a good candidate for a youth worker
or school teacher. You deliver your feelings well.
My old pappy told me something I'll never forget. He said, "The masses are asses". And I have found that to be true.
I understand the need for civility but I also know that in the stew of life a bit of spice keeps it more palatable.
As hard as we try we will not wake up everyone. We will never have a board that is completely civilized 100% of the time.
Never will we be free of members with vivid imaginations.
Variety is the spice of life. You will learn to like it or you will one day not come back here.
I hope you can learn to be more tolerant of us.
This would be a very boring site if it was a "just the facts and nothing else" type of board.
Again, I appreciate your concern.
my tone?
okay i will be good and stay away from that one. I am talking to you like an 11 year old though? Really? I am not lecturing you, however, i need you to understand that. I don't know why you feel that way but let me clarify: I made this thread because i am CONCERNED, genuinely worried about the state of our site. I love ATS, i think ATS can do a lot of good for a lot of people. I don't want a board that is "only facts" and no variety as you say. I love the huge difference of stories and ideas and thoughts that are presented here. I clearly said that people who use "only facts" as a way to twist the importance of something is one of the problems. also, i am not trying to do a moderators job. I am doing my job, as a sincere person who is concerned for my fellow human beings, to ensure that people can find their own version of the "truth" without being turned off by childish comments lts and name calling. If you only knew me in real life, you would know how absurd the idea of me lecturing people and talking to troubled youths is.
I practically AM a troubled youth! Not so youthful as i was 10 years ago, but just as troubled. I use swear words that don't even exist yet, i got maor authority issues, ect. But i want our board taken seriously, so i leave a little bit of that behind when i want to talk about something important. This is not a myspace blog, it is a forum to discuss important things, all i want is for people to act like they take themselves seriously, and others may do the same. I don't want a board free of vivid imaginations as you put it. for that matter, i don't think anyone else got that impression. Your defensive reaction to this makes me wonder if you are in fact not far from 11 years old. I am not being mean, it's just that your "tone" seems to hint that you are used to being talked to that way and are very defensive of it, perhaps because it was not all that many years ago. Perhaps not. Either way, even if your pappy was right (which i will say, it is not completely untrue) that doesn't mean we give up all hope of bringing the masses up to speed. The idea that you are better than "most people" is elitist, is it not?
i thought we were against such pre-conceived notions here????




