I think the most important thing is not thinking about having an Oobe! I had an amazing one recently... I went to my local beach and actually skimmed
across the waves, dipped into the water... awesome.
I started having the vibrations today when I was lying down and so wanted the same experience and trying to think about where else I could go and
then... thump... back to body and consciousnesses... bummer
The first one though, I gave it no thought, I followed instructions from my inner self (or outward guide, not sure?) to "roll out of bed" to
release myself from my physical body and was away, it was brilliant. But I wasn't trying to do it, I hadn't even read anything about it (I wasn't
a member here then, but it was a catalyst to making me find out more and that was one reason I found this site.. that and the LOA!)
I have had the vibrations all my life, like electricity going through my head, almost like a buzzing and whilst it was unpleasant during my teens as I
had horrific hypnogogic hallucinations, once I got to the bottom of why that was happening, I learned to enjoy the experience and know that I would
have amazing dreams when I had the vibrations and then of course just recently had the full Oobe and now I want more, but I know that when I get the
vibes, I just have to go with the flow and let it all happen, but hopefully can direct it a bit once I'm in the state as there are lots of places I
want to go!