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Originally posted by serendipitynow
We all bleed red and everyone is/was/will be the minority at some point.
To me, people always have been and always will be just that; "people".
Originally posted by FritosBBQTwist
I went to the gym and was playing some basketball with this little black kid and his dad.
He was 4 yeras younger than me, and still whooped me in some 21. Then, we had a 1v1 and I won by a shot.
My point? It was one damn good game, and it hurts me to even think that back in the day people would have refused such contact with someone from another race.
I make my jokes. I make my stereotypes. I make my remarks. But in the end, that is all there is to them.
There are some arguable morals out there...but when it comes to judging an actual person based upon color, it is sick.
Originally posted by Lemon.Fresh
reply to post by KSPigpen
I am not hurt by words. Actions do hurt, but time heals most things.
I grew up in Texas. I am white, and I know what it is like being the minority. I have been called bolio, gringo, cracker . . . in fact, the whole gamut of white racial slurs (see if this one gets edited ). It does not bother me. My friends can call each other racial slurs all day, and it does not phase us. It gets quite hilarious when we are drunk.
I have felt the effects of racism, and words are just that to me. Words.
IMHO, you do not "learn to decide" to not let words hurt you. Even if the words are meant in a hateful way . . . you just decide that they are merely words.
At the risk of sounding hippy (no offense whaaaa), why can't we all just see each other as humans.
Yes, we have different characteristics, and these can be described by using different words, but we all bleed red . . .
[edit on 10/5/2009 by Lemon.Fresh]
Originally posted by KSPigpen
Tell me, how does one so affected move beyond the external? How does a person not judge by appearance? How does a person elevate others, or lower his opinion of himself, so that all of mankind is equal? Where is it that I should be looking? How is it that I eliminate this specter completely from my subconscious? How is it that I can be free?
Originally posted by 3Rotary
reply to post by KSPigpen
It gets stuck in the mind, I know what you mean. Just remember, we are all Human. Language, appearance, color, size, these things mean nothing. It's all about who you are inside. You've already achieved this from what I've read in your op. Just need to get the mindset straight.
Originally posted by SpacePunk
Originally posted by KSPigpen
Tell me, how does one so affected move beyond the external? How does a person not judge by appearance? How does a person elevate others, or lower his opinion of himself, so that all of mankind is equal? Where is it that I should be looking? How is it that I eliminate this specter completely from my subconscious? How is it that I can be free?
In two words... you don't. It's just the human condition. Everybody carries bias against those that do not look like ourselves, think like ourselves, dress like ourselves, and are not in our social or economic circle. Anybody that says they do not have any bias towards others are liars, or comedians. We can choose to ignore bias, and that's the best we can do.
Call it what you wish, racism, cultural ism, elitism, etc... It's all driven by the most basic human reaction to people that are not like us.
Originally posted by KSPigpen
I just don't know how to address the irrational feelings I have that hinge on someone's physical appearance. I don't know if what I experience is normal and that others who SEEM unaffected have just learned to deny it within themselves, or if there are people in the world that are truly unaffected by racial and cultural differences and I am some sort of throwback, or dead end on the road of spiritual enlightenment.
How is it that I can be free?
Your input is eagerly anticipated. Thanks for taking the time to read.
Originally posted by inbound
reply to post by DrumsRfun
The first thing I thought of when I read your post, not that I agree or disagree, is what about nature? Intermingling in the animal world is very rare. I'm not talking about one watering hole with ten different species of animals there getting a drink, I mean daily life. I have no position on the subject, I could care less who hangs out with who and for what reasons. Just a thought.
Originally posted by ColdSteel
I have figured out that I am not a rascist but simply a bigot. I am okay with that. I can not stand other races cultures. I want all countries divided by race and you know darn well which countries will excel and which ones will not. I can not stand adultry and by that I mean adulterating the races. I am proud to be an Anglo Saxxon (angel blessed son of Isaac). I do not believe that the white race is superior to any other race but I am proud of our culture and our achievements throughout history. I am sick and tired of everyone thinking that we have to conform to everyone elses culture. If you don't like the culture of the white man then go back to whichever country you came from. This country has led the world in achievements and the whole world has been blessed because of it. The rest of the coutries have prospered with us, because of us. No I am not sorry to be white.