Hi, very interesting topic. I actually once made a thread about something like this and other things that didn't make sense to me.
It just seems so weird that Hell, as most people know it, could exist. It doesn't make sense to me. I mean if God has all eternity to spend with
Christians in Heaven, why can't He use some of that time to spend on non-believers and helping them change for the better? I believe everyone can
change, even if they're someone like Hitler or just really, really bad and "set in their ways". After all, isn't it said that the only certainty
in life, is change? Everything is always changing. Why should people be any different? Obviously God wouldn't change though because He is the Source
and Creator of everything.
But people change all the time. Especially when they learn new things they hadn't previously known. Then they change their ways and lives
accordingly, like say when someone is "born again", or when a new scientific discovery is made.
To me, the only thing that would make sense is reincarnation. And there's quite a bit of evidence I've read about that's convinced me it's real.
See if there's reincarnation, you have multiple lives to live through to choose whether or not you want to spend eternity with God. Every lifetime is
different and obviously you'd be born into different walks of life where you acquire new insight, giving you more understanding and in a better
position to choose where you'd rather end up: Heaven or Hell. Say for example a man is ignorant and racist in one life, but then he dies and is born
into a life where he is a man of the "race" he used to look down upon. Then he sees how it actually
is to be that man and might experience
the kind of racism that he used to dish out! Therefore, hopefully, he would acquire new insight and understanding into something he'd previously been
ignorant about.
Imho if God really loves us and we are as precious to Him as He says we are, shouldn't we be given as much information and experience as possible so
we can really make an informed decision about where we choose to spend eternity? I mean it's the biggest decision you would ever make, where you
would choose to spend eternity. And time has no meaning to God, so I don't know why we'd have a set amount of time in which to make our decision.
Only one lifetime? That's barely enough. And hell actually may not exist as another place, it might actually just be here, on earth. The more
ignorant you stay, especially of your own choosing, the more you'll reincarnate on earth and stay in "hell". I believe that Buddhism probably has
it right.
So no, I wouldn't wish anybody to go to hell, because I believe everyone can change for the better. Though sometimes I do hope some people got to
hell, out of anger which I know I should stop, but I could never really mean it