Originally posted by Wachstum
May i ask what age is your daughter? Just out of curiosity, what do believe is a proper age to teach heavy weapon for a daughter? You know, my culture
differs a lot to yours, and honestly, i'd teach my child at no age the "skills" you seem to regard as necessary... well, there are differences
between people.
When she turned 10 I got her a longbow and taught her bow safety and archery.
When she turned 11 I got her a compound bow.
When she turned 12 I got her a sword and she is taking Fencing lessons with me to learn foil, epee, and saber.
What started off as giving her a Classical Education in Archery & Fencing (and her requirement to receive a sword was memorizing 12 classic books of
poetry), turned into something she took a lot of interest in and enjoys. She finds it challenging and it has helped her greatly increase her focus and
decrease her distractability.
So, as she is approaching 13 she has already been asking about going to the Gun Range and although the babymama doesn't agree she is age appropriate
to be given firearms training, her babymama's father wants to take her hunting with him this season and agrees that she is ready.
Although I wouldn't give her her own firearm as a minor, if I am going to have any in the house, even under lock and key, then she is going to have
to learn firearm safety first before I consider it, let alone let her go hunting with her maternal grandfather. (The State I live in certifies
children over the age 11 for firearm hunting safety.)
By comparison, I was taught firearm safety when I was 5 and re-taught it over and over until I learned to both respect and fear firearms. On my 7th
birthday my grandfather gave me a .22 rifle although my parents wouldn't let me touch it until after I was 10. Before he would teach me to use the
.22 rifle, he made me learn how to shoot a M1 Garand first. It seemed backwards at first, but after I earned a right to use the .22 it actually made
sense. By the time I was 11 my father allowed me to open-carry a Ruger Super Blackhawk loaded with bird-shot whenever we went hiking (as I have always
had a problem attracting rattle-snakes).
I am looking primarily for firearms for myself but ones that she can learn to use as well. Sub-compact handguns make more sense because they would fit
her hand better...although for rifles she would probably get more enjoyment from long-range target shooting than close to mid-range, whereas I prefer
close to mid-range. If she enjoys Marksmanship with a firearm as much as she does with a bow, then it might be yet another sport she may find interest
with.
Ancient cultures understood the need to teach martial weapons to children of both genders at a young age, not for martial purposes, but as a form of
discipline and sport that may one day serve them well if ever the need arose that they be used for martial purposes later in their life. Almost every
Prep School for girls teaches Fencing & Archery still. Just because the martial weapons have evolved over the course of history doesn't mean that
modern martial weapons shouldn't be taught to youth as well.
Although every child is different. In some cultures a child gains the rights and responsibilities of an adult at 13. I have raised my daughter
responsibly so that she would be mentally, emotionally and morally ready to accept adult responsibilities at that age. As such, so long as she
continues to take responsibility, I have no hesitation in allowing her certain privileges. However, there are children older than my daughter that I
would not consider teaching firearms to, and some adults that I have met that probably shouldn't be allowed that privilege either. Age, in such
cases, has little to do with it, but one's character and disposition do.
Besides, if my daughter has had her BATF Explosives Permit since age 7 (so that she could continue enjoying her favorite hobby, High Powered Rocketry,
post 9-11), then it doesn't seem any more odd that she would receive firearms safety and training at age 13!