reply to post by calstorm
Let me tell you all a little story. Its a true story. It happened in 1996.
After a contentious custody dispute involving myself against my mother and the fathers (and wives) of two of my daughters in which every attempt was
made to destroy my character, the legal system decided that awarding custody of both of my daughter's to me was in their best interest. Also in
their best interest was court ordered visitation for the grandmother (my mother) and the girls' respective fathers. Included in the visitation order
(fairly) was 2 week summer vacation for each girl with her father (and wives).
Losing the hotly contested, contentious and financially ruinous custody suit was not enough to deter them from their ultimate goal. Taking my
children from me was an act of revenge and a plot to circumvent the courts was laid. (It took me 10 years to discover all of the facts I'm about to
describe. Translated: I didn't know for sure what was going on, I relied on my intuition at the time.)
Backtracking just a tad to include an important part of the fiasco that took place one year before. The trio of mom & 2 ex's + wives plotted to get
my daughter from me (we lived in another state) was to file charges (later proved false) against me, have me arrested and incarcerated on a felony
warrant on a Friday afternoon while I was waitressing in a nationally known restaurant. The purpose of serving the warrant on a Friday afternoon was
to keep me in jail until their "master plan" was accomplished.
However, their plan did not go smoothly. I was arrested on felony charges and "processed" into the legal system wearing my waitress uniform. On
Monday morning I faced the charges, plead not guilty and was released on my own recognisance twelve hours later when I was picked up by my husband.
That was when I found out the arrest was only part of the plan. My 13 year old daughter had been in contact with her grandmother (against my
instructions for very good reason it turns out) abetted by her Guidance Counselor at school. The plan was to get me out of the way, claim that my
daughter was abandoned (dependant is the legal term) by me (because they lied to put me in jail) and convinced a KY Juvenile Court Judge to issue the
warrant without evidence to support the criminal accusation. My daughter knew her grandmother was coming to get her that day and knew that I was to
be arrested so they could present the Ky. court order taking her from me due to my incarceration.
My husband picked my daughter up from school after he received my "one phone call" and took her elsewhere, thwarting my mother's plan.
I appeared before the Kentucky Court, plead not guilty (to the felony charge of $24,000 non child-support), proved my case and it was dismissed.
However, before dismissing the case, the Judge publicly and vehemently admonished the "three" antagnists and advised me to seek civil action against
them for fraudulent use of the court system.
None of them had a dime so I decided not to spend more money, more time and more energy on them when I had children to raise. To me the issue was
resolved and over with.
Now back to the story. My oldest daughter went on her two week visitation with her father (4 hours away). On the day I was to meet halfway to pick
her up, there was no phone call or notice until 9PM that evening when I finally reached them on the phone. I was told that my daughter had gone to a
Juvenile court judge with a handwritten statement on three sheets of legal paper detailing how I, her mother, was physically, mentally and emotionally
abusing her and that she was afraid of me.
I was in shock. It was a blatant lie, but it was in her handwriting. Court ordered emergency custody was granted to her father.
Six weeks later, my second daughter went on her court ordered visitation, whe was 10. This time at the end of the 2 week period, I was visited by
My second daughter had also made claims against me but more importantly, she claimed my husband had sexually molested her.
CPS opened a case in Ohio and a corresponding case in Kentucky concerning my daughters, myself, my 8 month old baby and my husband.
I was interviewed by the case worker in Ohio. My husband was ordered out of the home until the investigation was completed. My oldest daughters were
to remain under emergency custody orders in Ky. until the case was either dropped or charges filed. Meaning I had no contact with them whatsoever.
During my cooperation with the investigation I made a point of letting CPS know the animosity and viscious nature of the plaintiffs by their part in
previous manipulations involving my children and I. But, they took what I told them and twisted it around with insane logic. I was accused of
harboring a sexual deviant with full knowledge and assistance because I denied all the accusations.
I lost my children, my job, my home, my husband and my self because conspiracies do exist and CPS is not interested in the best interest of the
After 10 years had passed I was reunited with my daughters, one at a time. Each of them confirmed what my gut told me years ago, that they were being
used to achieve revenge by their fathers, step-mothers and grandmother.
Why? Because my mother was a master manipulator whose entire goal was to ensure my daughter was raised a Jehovah's Witness. She conspired with my
ex's wives to get the girls back so no one would have to pay child support!
CPS investigation resulted in no charges being filed. The investigation was dropped. The damage was done and my children were taken from me for no
other reason than revenge, hate and distorted State Run Agencies ability to control.
I have a cassette tape, 45 minutes long, with the case worker destroying my character, accusing me of being a criminal who abused my own children and
harboring a sexual deviant with full knowledge and consent. She used government statistics to to prove that women who have been raped allow their
children to be raped. Therefore, despite the facts and relevant issues concerning the case, I was tried and crucified by the case worker and in her
reports to the STATE, this is what she claimed.
Once again, the entire story is true. I was framed and they got away with it using the Law to their advantage. Just so you all know, right does not
always win. The System is not geared toward justice. The System destroys.
Ask me how all of this made my children's lives better.