posted on Sep, 7 2009 @ 06:30 PM
reply to post by red_leader
Why wait? There is no promise that tommorrow will come. It can
never be too early. If you need a conversation opener try something
like " I know our relationship has had it's problems. I know that there
must have been some things that I had done and I wanted to apologize.
It's been weighing down my heart and I wanted to tell you lest I never
get the chance".
Really, what's the worst that can happen? Not talk for another 10
years? I know that the conversation can possibly turn bad. If that
should happen you need to gently stop and tell her that you didn't want
to say anytihing negative.
Don't think about it - just do it. If it goes wrong hang up. I don't
think you have anything to lose. I treasure every day my mother
is still alive, I wish it could be the same for you.