posted on Sep, 1 2009 @ 11:57 AM
reply to post by nine-eyed-eel
There is an entire philosophical/psychological theory called "Fake it till you make it." It can be hugely successful, and I personally know of
several success stories! I think it falls in line with the Diceman's theory! It also corresponds well with Sun Tsu and Game Theory!
When you feel vulnerable project strength! Act like the person you want yourself to be. Project confidence at all times, be decisive, be bold, be
There is no better way to overcome shyness or inferiority than acting boldly! It sounds difficult, but it really isn't if you are "acting." The
more you act, the easier it becomes. There is always the danger of entirely flipping your personality though, and becoming someone you don't like
anymore! So, I only recommend "Faking It" as a temporary exercise while you work on fundamentally changing your outlooks.