posted on Aug, 30 2009 @ 05:28 PM
Just got out of a really long term relationship. I'll probably be too descript here, but I'm really not this picky.
-Someone who doesn't need to live on a schedule. I find people who are too strict to a schedule to have problems. It might just be me, but typically
they are people with timultuous pasts who feel the need to "be in control."
-A girl who isn't too independent. Independent is good, but love is codependence to some extent.
-Confidence is needed. A girl who doesn't mind going out without makeup is a HUGE plus.
-I'll bite the bullet and watch Project Runway with you if you can watch the game with me.
-I'll hold your purse and let you do your dressing room thing in the mall if you go to guitar center with me.
-You need to like my music
-You need to like giving and receiving massages
-You need to think everything I do is cute.
-Artistic is good.
-I like silence as much as I like laughing.
But the only real requirement is honesty. If things are going badly, they need to be communicated, the same as if they were going wonderfully.
I realize that these lists are just projections of the insecurities of the people who write them. I'm cool with that.