posted on Aug, 27 2009 @ 04:47 AM
reply to post by Lilithia
I hear what you're saying. I do make a point to tell her how beautiful she is at least a couple of times a day. I actually have to make a conscious
effort not to say that too much, lest I seem obsessed.
But looking back more clearly now, I see that she wasn't in the mood that day and I was being demanding and obnoxious. I was also drunk and not
picking up on her mood. So really that was all my fault.
I have to learn not to be so touchy and paranoid. She really does get into most things with me. But for some reason wearing stocking is the only thing
she has some kind of weird problem with. She has a great body and she knows she looks good and she knows I know she looks good.
If that's the only problem I really shouldn't complain. I tend to distort things, over react to situations, in other words I tend to create my own
problems, looking for problems were none exist.
I think I have to drop the whole stockings issue with her for good now, if she ever decides to wear that stuff then great, but I'm not going to ever
ask again. I can see how being asked to get dressed up can seem like asking someone to jump through a hoop, I can see why that would be annoying.
She likes to wear nice/sexy clothes and then just be completely naked when having sex. That's good enough for me. Actually that etxremely fortunate
I like your ideas though. She did say that she liked being commanded, as in a role playing scenario. I might explore that a little more.
Thanks for your reply, I appreciate it.