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As a woman, if you were single and sober, how would you honestly feel if a semi-attractive male stranger walked up to you, and simply asked you back to his room? My guess is you would be at least a little offended. I don't know any men who would be offended by that offer (by a woman, felt the need to clarify that, lol), and most would prefer it to happen every single day.
Originally posted by liveandlearn
The women I know who do that will sleep with any man any time. I just don't understand why anyone would be so undiscriminating. Just something I really can't relate to.
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Originally posted by aleon1018
After two failed marriages and two sucessful divorces, I've had about 5 years on disability to think these things out. Soooo, it does make sense to me.
And 5? Sometimes we just want to be held?
My last wife seemed to be bitchy because she needed an excuse to keep cheating on me also. But looking back, I would have left me too.
[edit on 20-8-2009 by aleon1018]
Originally posted by wylekat
reply to post by 27jd
It's been more than one- And the main problem has always been "Dont be who you are, be someone ELSE." I am not, NOT going to go and rewire myself, and not act like myself, and not BE MYSELF so I can have me some. I have had women literally RUN from me, just because of how I LOOK. Or how much I do (or dont) make. not a thing is said about my personality, how loyal, honest, good, nice, smart, funny, creative, resourceful, NOT A SINGLE SOLITARY thing that would make me, ME. Just how do I look, where's the money.
This has happened nearly nonstop for 20 YEARS. All American women. All the same 'needs', all of them shallow.
A @)*#)(*($* manual, or how to guide to understand woman is NOT supposed to be needed! It's supposed to be love, it's supposed to be good reasons for attraction. Not this 'the view' or 'oprah' bull*cough*
Like I said, it's just not natural for women to behave that way, and usually it's to make up for something that is missing in their lives (like a father figure), to try and drown out some kind of trauma, or to get back at over controlling parents (since this is a psych thread, lol). I've known women like that as well, and there was usually something underlying.
It's been more than one- And the main problem has always been "Dont be who you are, be someone ELSE." I am not, NOT going to go and rewire myself, and not act like myself, and not BE MYSELF so I can have me some. I have had women literally RUN from me, just because of how I LOOK. Or how much I do (or dont) make. not a thing is said about my personality, how loyal, honest, good, nice, smart, funny, creative, resourceful, NOT A SINGLE SOLITARY thing that would make me, ME. Just how do I look, where's the money.
This has happened nearly nonstop for 20 YEARS. All American women. All the same 'needs', all of them shallow.
Originally posted by wylekat
reply to post by 27jd
I am not, NOT going to go and rewire myself, and not act like myself, and not BE MYSELF so I can have me some.
Originally posted by liveandlearn
But, besides raging hormones, what makes men so undiscriminating?