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is there some sort of conspiracy to women and their feelings?
Originally posted by manmaidslave
Nope, no help. sorry.
Women are very good in pretending like they aren't insecure too (to men at least! A BIG difference with women. I know so many women who will say "of COURSE we're insecure!") - the simple truth is something many women don't (seem to) realise that they hold the sexual trump card in 95%+ instances. Guys are all too aware of this, even if some are deluded.
A guy can go out and think we can get lucky, a woman can go out knowing she WILL.
Originally posted by liveandlearn
reply to post by TailoredVagabond
I was reading your post and thinking "Hmm, maybe a little over generalization and stereotypical but he seems to be sensitive and gets it"
Then you went and added this
Women are very good in pretending like they aren't insecure too (to men at least! A BIG difference with women. I know so many women who will say "of COURSE we're insecure!") - the simple truth is something many women don't (seem to) realise that they hold the sexual trump card in 95%+ instances. Guys are all too aware of this, even if some are deluded.
A guy can go out and think we can get lucky, a woman can go out knowing she WILL.
What is lucky about going out and spending the night with a stranger that you have no emotional attachment to when you had rather be with someone you care about?
Lucky is two people who care enough about each other to understand (or try to) when the other is having a problem.
Lucky is knowing that person will be there to help you through it and be there when it is over.
Lucky is knowing that person would never walk out hoping to make it better for him/herself by betraying the relationship for a cheap night with a stranger.
That would certainly make me insecure.
A Little Help For Men Trying To Understand Women!
Originally posted by Greenize
2. Sometimes we just need to be alone. Again, do not take it personally. I for one work with the public. There are people in my face all day long. This is very energy draining. Some time alone does wonders for the psyche. After a long day at work I feel spread rather thin if you will...it doesn't mean we don't love you or enjoy your company. Its healing.
Originally posted by deadpool84
reply to post by Greenize
no offense but i dont feel that this topic should be posted on ATS... is there some sort of conspiracy to women and thier feelings?