posted on Aug, 21 2009 @ 07:30 AM
Good post, you could have elaborated to include 'advice', I think.
Plus I like the fact your post is on here, as if women are a complete mystery to everyone (including other women) - quite funny!
I was brought up by a single mother who did everything for two boys and one boy of thirty something(!!!) and I learned first-hand her rationale for
being anything like these typical traits you describe. I do wonder how women put up with men sometimes (noisy, smelly, obnoxious arrogant, ignorant
and don't look after themselves), in fact sometimes I wonder how guys put up with women, too (nagging, dramatic, emotional blackmail, never
apparently happy, too critical if we're not well groomed, over critical if we're care "too much" - can't win!!).
Us guys need to be (a lot, in many cases) more considerate and don't wait until we're told to do something (trash, compliments, just making
decisions and realising the decision doesn't matter - just as long as its made!!).
Women, on the other hand need to be a bit less picky and introduce more logic into the everyday stuff they give guys crap about.
Women are very good in pretending like they aren't insecure too (to men at least! A BIG difference with women. I know so many women who will say "of
COURSE we're insecure!") - the simple truth is something many women don't (seem to) realise that they hold the sexual trump card in 95%+
instances. Guys are all too aware of this, even if some are deluded.
A guy can go out and think we can get lucky, a woman can go out knowing she WILL.
There are exceptions of course(!) but these are just my tried and tested theories!