posted on Aug, 30 2009 @ 09:33 PM
Women select the man, not the other way around. He can posture, charm, show off, brag, or do his best to be witty, and collegiate. None of it matters.
He can wear the best of male couture, have an amazing brilliant neon smile, with a body he has worked on sculpting to perfection. Yet, there he
stands, a living Adonis, and yet he remains single, and cannot understand why!
He thinks that he is cut a mile above the rest of the male population, and expects nothing but the most perfect Aphrodite as his reward for his
He plays the field, making his best moves, showing off his prowess while bragging of self professed expertise in the bedroom. If that doesn't work,
then "slipping a mickey" into a unsuspecting targets drink, will show who is in charge of the "Catch Me,Catch ME" game. It is a game to him. He
thinks women play the game just like he does...which is his greatest mistake.
Women select the man...and what she see's isn't what he thinks it is. The subtle cues, and nuances of the mating dance, are below the surface. They
cannot be manufactured in the gym, or purchased off the rack.
The eyes are the windows to the soul. Women know how read the eyes. Men don't. Women can read every facial expression, and know what body language
means. They are masters at it. They start learning it, when they are little girls. Females are social creatures normally, and they tend to cultivate
their social standings and cliques early. They learn from each other, and from their mothers and sisters. By the time they are 15 or so, they pretty
much have a good concept of how to read people. Males haven't a clue. They are still floundering around while they try to find their place.
Men are fools with eyeballs, that let what they see at first glance arose them.
A woman may initially take notice, but, she WAITS to SEE! That is the difference and a huge distinction.
The one thing that a mature female will know how to do, is, use her feminine wiles and charms to entice, tease, play, and send out whatever messages
she wants. She can send out " I'm interested" one moment, and then," EWW" the next..totally confusing the male. All he see's, is her face, and
body shape. He is formulating in his mind what she's like in bed within 20 seconds of saying hello. She is thinking; can I trust this guy, and is his
act in fact the real him, or is he putting me on? Therefore, she begins to dissect his every facial tic, body movement and listens to every intonation
of every word. In other words, she has her lie detector turned on. Unfortunately, way too many men, have perfected the art of the razzle-dazzle,
baffle `em with your Bullcrap stories and outright lie their ass off, just to score. They are not interested in the real her, only what she can
pleasure him with. These are immature males, or players.
A real male, one who is mature enough to understand his drives, and how he perceiving his ocular inputs, can allow himself to relax enough to let his
inner being come though. A confident, relaxed, and subtly self assured male will always beat out the gamers. This is why, many times guys will see an
absolutely beautiful woman, with a mundane to average looking man, that has no real over developed physical attributes. What he does have that
counts, is on the inside, and how he thinks of himself, how he treats her emotionally and that he can empathize. A real male, can relate to her. He is
confident enough, to not allow himself to be constrained by sheer ego driven maleness alone.
Very few men will try. They think it makes them less than men! Far too many, still think domination is their role.
There are many men that still think they are the one's who do the selecting.
A really smart female, can make him think this, when in fact, she selected him, and allowed the romance to progress at her pace. He is so self
he thinks he was in charge all along. He wasn't. She see's right through him.
This is why females rock! I love it.