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Yeah, it's easy to want to shrug off the truth
Originally posted by Misfit
Originally posted by Phenomium
It not only happened in my first marriage, but in every predecessive relationship I had.
So it is the fault of all women that your choice of women sucks?
They are invariably unhappy and unfulfilled because they deny their own needs for the sake of others. They view life as a struggle, and themselves as a bastion of righteousness in an ungrateful world.
Originally posted by Phenomium
It is because of the horrible things done to me in the name of seduction
..... snip .......
Although it is not the fault of ALL women, the pattern suggest that I had better keep a keen eye on all of them.
Originally posted by schrodingers dog
As if ANYONE ever put a gun to his head and made him make the life choices he has made.
Originally posted by Misfit
Originally posted by Phenomium
It is because of the horrible things done to me in the name of seduction
..... snip .......
Although it is not the fault of ALL women, the pattern suggest that I had better keep a keen eye on all of them.
It is not all women that use this card you speak of. Ergo, it's just wrong to be so against women in whole, as your posts have attested to.
With the second line, sounds like you are opening up a bit with what is really in you. Maybe you are not so anti-female after all. Maybe it is the male gusto still speaking out for you......... instead of you the person speaking.
Originally posted by Phenomium
This psychological attempt to dampen my opinion will not work on me female.
Originally posted by Greenize
reply to post by Phenomium
Don't take this wrong, but you seem to have some anger issues. You can't blame the world, you can't blame all women because you had a bad experience or two. This thread was intended to be fun, it was written in jest...no two people on this planet think the same, feel the same, rationalize the same...whatever.... Men are just as complicated as women are. I know that my husband has needs, like time alone...he has moods swings and I know there are times that he doesn't feel well. We have over 24 years vested in our marriage. It is the hardest job that either of us have ever had... we work at it everyday... Love is give and take on the part of both parties and it takes both knowing that! I would never divorce him and take everything that he (we) has/have worked hard to aquire. That is why we work at keeping it together. Hostility solves nothing...
[edit on 22-8-2009 by Greenize]
Originally posted by schrodingers dog
Originally posted by Phenomium
This psychological attempt to dampen my opinion will not work on me female.
And THERE in lies the sum of all your fallacies and misperceptions ...
Misfit is a male.
Originally posted by Greenize
reply to post by Phenomium
I would have to be honest and say that my husband wears the pants...He is a very head strong man, but that is part of who he is. I am happy letting him wear the pants. I wouldn't like it if he allowed me to bully him. He doesn't press the point however because I wear the panties!
That was a joke!
Originally posted by zazzafrazz
reply to post by Phenomium
Yeah, it's easy to want to shrug off the truth
Your truth is not my truth.
Your truth of male-female dynamics is not my truth.
My brother once said to a angry man spekaing much like you are now :
"Feminism is not a dirty word. I thank god that my mother, my daughter, my sisters and wife live in a age after women achieved throwing of abuses and domination subjigating them for thousands of years. They did all this without firing guns. Men in revolutions have never behaved so well in order to gain their freedom, and it was men who took freedom from all because of fear."
You reflect that which you put out. The women you have had in your life you have attracted them. I dont view people so much as men/women as much as people, and watching power dynamics is always interesting, when you fear losing it, then you bleat loudly.